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You are SCUM. Seriously, a kiss, a secret text message to meet up. YOU DON'T DO THAT WHEN YOU'RE WITH SOMEONE YOU CARE ABOUT. TWICE.
Your logic seriously baffles me. How can you think you should be welcomed back in open arms? The mind boggles.
But you're a cheater with a stupid mentality to relationships. You deserve every bit of emotional turmoil from this that you get. :thumb:
Well then don't do it again. But judging by what you've already said you think you can't help yourself, which suggests you probably will do it again. So what is it you want from us? Sympathy? A pat on the back?
Yes, of course you can, but you can't blame people for being sceptical. And bitter, if they've been on the receiving end. You said " After the first time,and we were looking in each others eyes, I could of cried." So if you felt like that the first time and it didn't stop you doing it again, why should we believe that it'll stop you another time? More to the point, why does it matter to you if we believe it or not?
I mean... I don't know what you're looking for here. Do you want us to justify you and tell you you're not so bad after all? If you feel bad and you've decided you won't do it again, surely that's an end to it.
I havn't been in a relationship for a long time because I had my heart torn out!
I did not stay with her. I wanted to for i loved her and still do, but I cant be with a cheater, needless to say what she did was far worse than you but its not the point.
Believe it or not I am not a nasty person, I have a heart, and I dont like seeing people get hurt or upset, I'm disgusted at what I have done.
Not what you said last night on the phone.
If you really love this girl as much as you say you do then i would suggest keeping shtum about this and put it down to experience. Just dont do it again and dont even put yourself in situations where temptation is going to be likely. im not saying dont go out, just dont get that wrecked and be careful about what you drink. Beleive me i know how easy it is to say that rather than do it, practically everytime ive said i dont want to get wrecked i end up even more wrecked but for the sake of this girl just dont cheat on her again. If you're out and you get lonely then phone her up or go and see her!
And as for Bomberman444, keep your comments to your girlfriend to PMs. You two seriously air your knickers out here too often.
Its not her heart you'll be breaking...sure she'll be upset about it, and it will take time to come to terms with, but I'm pretty certain she will get over you and realise she had a lucky escape!
No, I think the only person whose heart will be broken is yours and I think thats why your not going to tell her. I think you are selfish, you might not want to hurt her but it sounds to me that you are trying to protect yourself and not her.
bite me, she airs stuff I never do usually.
Now now child.
doesn't make it any better, does it.
really, you both ought to get an airer.
and for the record, the being drunk excuse is the worst one in the book, closely followed by 'i was high', in fact thats worse. in fact lets just leave it at being intoxicated. everyone thay has ever done anything they feel ashamed of whilst under the influence has blamed it on that and everyone knows thats not the real reason.
grow up, tell the truth
i hope you live a sad and lonely existence