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Cheating :(
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I think I have that disease where you cant stop cheating or something 
This is the second time I've done it now in 2 weeks
Anyone else share my problem?
This is the second time I've done it now in 2 weeks
Anyone else share my problem?
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Like squeal16 said, why did you do it?
Do ur gf a favour n dump her
So if she cheated on you with two blokes you would be cool with it yet?
It'd break her heart even more if she found out from someone else, and believe me, word does get around and the truth nearlly always does come out.
If friends know, then i would tell her, word WILL get around, you never know who is about, your friends could discuss this and someone who knows your girlfriend could be about and eventually it will get back. If she finishes with you, then sorry but you'l have learnt your lesson. I wouldn't blame her, but you never know, you might be able to work through it.
How old are you and your girlfriend btw?
I think you probably feel terrible because people do know, your friends will talk and word will get round and I think it is that, that is making you feel terrible... the knowledge that she might find out! What right have you got to make this decision for her, by not telling her you are letting yourself get away with what you have done, I think you should tell her, it is up to her to make the decision whether she will allow this relationship to continue. What you have done is not just "some drunken kisses," but trampled over a foundation of trust that you and your girlfriend have made between you and you have completely trashed it.
When you chose to cheat on your girlfriend you had a choice, you didn't have to do it but you did. Clearly you don't love her as much as you might think otherwise you wouldn't have felt the need!
There must be problems in your relationship with your GF.
nor are you!
in the space of 8 and a half months you've cheated on her twice. i'd hardly say you love her. if you did you wouldn't hurt her like you are now and you wouldn't feel the need to go elsewhere. finish with her before you do it again, no point in being in a relationship with someone if you're going to put it about.
That's a twattish response.
Because what you did wasn't very nice to her. Also wasn't a very mature response either. I don't think you're mature enough or have the commitment to be in a long term relationship, well thats how i see it.
Because you openly admit you're in the wrong for cheating on your girlfriend..TWICE. And you say you feel crap, but you don't think being called a twat is a nice thing to say?
What you're doing to your Missus is the pits, you ARE a twat. You haven't got the balls to do the decent thing. Be a man.
Tell her she can do better than you. You're being so selfish making her think you only want to share feelings and affection with her when on a Saturday night when you're on the lash you are more than happy to admit you'd go for anything with a pretty face.
Simple as.
You are completely wrong to do what you have done. Espeacially after 8 and a half months. The poor girl. Fuck me she could do so much better than that. Kissing is still cheating, you obviously had no thought for her at all. You do not love her, for if you did it would not have happened... drunk/sober whatever. NO EXCUSE!