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hey guys, im new this site i just wanted some advice!..ona subject ya most probably bored of answering to! soz!basically im a virgin, my boyfriend is coming over to stay with me this weekend and we planning on having sex.. just wondered if you could give me some tips on what the hell to do!!!i what kind of stuff do i do while we doing it.. i mean i cant jus lay there like a dead duck doing nothing!!! also could ya give me some tips on good foreplay aswell- we havent really dont much with eathother just kissing really cos i wernt ready before but now i am 100% ready i just want some tips cos he very experienced and im not, im sure hell teach me a few things ifd just like a few ideas before hand!! thanx peeps!! xxx
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how old have you been together?
Jesus i sound alot older than 15!
If its something you want to do go ahead with it. Its ultimately your descison.
In respect of what to do. Explore each others bodys, touch him gently, softly, and enjoy being close to him. Do what feels right for you.
Good luck if you do go for it.
Just a little pointer .. Sex isnt everything.
Beat me to it
But you obviously don't love this guy, you've said it. Now when you do find someone that you love, and have sex with them, you'll find it's special and far better than just screwing some guy.
Hmm, I think I sounded like a Christian...oh dear...
I watched a programme on BBC2 about teenagers taking an oath to abstain from having sexual relations for something like 5 months, and it really did have an impact on these kids..
I'm 19 and a virgin, and I can't understand why young girls and boys (after all, that's what you are at 15/16) are all so easily ready to have have sexual relationships at such a young age, and why they see sex as something so trivial like brushing your teeth twice a day...
One girl spoke to her boyfriend on the phone, and told him she has taken an oath to be celibate for 5 months and he couldn't hack it... she then realised that she gave herself to her boyfriend because it was expected of her, not because she loved him and wanted to be close to him (they broke up shortly after the phonecall)... says it all really.
heyitsme: Don't do it... please.
Ilora x
We're not trying to lecture, we just want the best for you. We all know what it's like to fancy someone so much you just want to jump on them and have rampant sex all night long. But, not all of us actually do it....
Ilora x
THANK YOU DOOFAY!
You want tips . wank him off first so u can last longer in the bed .
Sorry but thats not a good tip, just take it slow dont expect it to be great.
If youve decided your ready then OK.
Its not Rocket Science,