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foreplay for the blokes
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I was having sex last night and during foreplay I noticed my g/f was looking a bit bored. I asked her after and she said she wasn't but she was worried that I was getting bored (although this seems like an odd reason to be bored herslef!?!). Anyway, she said she was worried because she doesn't really know what to do to me and I'll get bored of the same old thing.
Well, it's true, I am getting a bit bored, so I came up with a few suggesitons for her, but I couldn't think of too many. With her being my first proper sexual partner I'm not too experienced in these things. So basically my question is; for the guys - what does your girl do during foreplay that really turns you on? And girls, what do you do to your guys that's good for them?
As many suggesitons as possible please, they will all be very welcome.
Thank You!
Well, it's true, I am getting a bit bored, so I came up with a few suggesitons for her, but I couldn't think of too many. With her being my first proper sexual partner I'm not too experienced in these things. So basically my question is; for the guys - what does your girl do during foreplay that really turns you on? And girls, what do you do to your guys that's good for them?
As many suggesitons as possible please, they will all be very welcome.
Thank You!
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She just uses her hand.
I have spoken to her and asked her not to just go straight there and go for it, she has started to run her hand up and down my body and start of slowly, which has helped, but there just doesn't seem to be any variety. It's very much stimulation by numbers.
I just want some ideas so I can help her try new things
use the time to spend time trying things you haven't tried before, you nearly always find something that turns you on that you never knew about!