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someone explain to me
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Why would you break up with someone you loved, just because you hadn't been with anyone else? Why is experimentation more important than a secure loving relationship?
I don't get it at all.
I don't get it at all.
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You get to this point where you're in the most amazing loving relationship that would kill you if it ended, or if he fell in love with another girl, but I know that I wouldn't be able to stay with him from now till I die, just because of curiousity.
I'd always be thinking - how would another person kiss me like? what would it feel like to be with someone else? could anyone anyone else love me this much.
On the flipside, I heard someone say this in another thread - curiousity killed the relationship. I suppose I'll have to sit on these thoughts and remain content with my amazing bey Brandon.
Carry on though everyone, I'm sure that you'll continue to stun me.
Well obviously they want to shag other people.
People may wanna see if the grass is greener on the other side. Even though you love someone it doesnt mean that you aren't allowed to wonder what sex is like with another partner, some people are just curious..........sommat like that anyhow.
Maybe its more like the fear of commitment of "thats it for the rest of your life" and someone panics (especialy if there young under say 25 or 26)
I can relate to that but it is still harsh, a couple of times in the past with me its been the fear of being a professional middle class couple, but it finished for other reasons although that was a factor.
i think some people can be content with 1 thing and not knowing any different, and others need to experience more so they know that when they find something good, that its the best they can get....i suppose so they dont have any regrets.
Ah who knows, everyone is different anyway
There is the whole curiosity thing, how can you know something is the best when you've only seen one thing? I do wonder what it would have been like to have slept with more girls before meeting GWST, and I think it would have been better if I had. I've slept with two people, though, so I know there is no point losing what I have for a bit of someone else. I'm intrigued by the experience, but not enough to ever lose what I have "just to see".
If you've only ever known one person, and the things with them are a bit rough, it is human nature to look at the field and see lots of green grass, I think. Even if you've known loads its human nature to do that, but if you've only had one person you don't have anything to base your feelings against.