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Small women problem
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I have a problem, mainly due to the incomprehensableness of women.
I went out last weekend with a girl who Ive known for a while but still distant enough for a friendship not to get in the way of a more serious relationship. Shes a nice girl but has been in alot more relationships, and slept with alot more people than me.
We went out for dinner at a nice resturant then out for a few drinks and then back to mine. She stayed round untill the early hours of the morning, we chatted none stop but didnt have sex. It was technically a first date so I didnt push the issue. The next night I invited her round to watch some dvds, but kept on getting interupted by one of my house mates so nothing happened again.
I invited her round again but she wasnt feeling to good, which I believe because she wasnt feeling too well the second night she came round.
Now she seems to be a bit distant, and Im not sure if I should ask her out again, I could end up looking like a lemon.
Suggestions folks?
I went out last weekend with a girl who Ive known for a while but still distant enough for a friendship not to get in the way of a more serious relationship. Shes a nice girl but has been in alot more relationships, and slept with alot more people than me.
We went out for dinner at a nice resturant then out for a few drinks and then back to mine. She stayed round untill the early hours of the morning, we chatted none stop but didnt have sex. It was technically a first date so I didnt push the issue. The next night I invited her round to watch some dvds, but kept on getting interupted by one of my house mates so nothing happened again.
I invited her round again but she wasnt feeling to good, which I believe because she wasnt feeling too well the second night she came round.
Now she seems to be a bit distant, and Im not sure if I should ask her out again, I could end up looking like a lemon.
Suggestions folks?
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the only way you could look like a lemon is if you call her 100 times and turn into a stalker!
Do you think I fucked up with the none sex, even though it technically wasnt my fault.
Thanks for the replies people.
You didn't fuck up just because you didn't have sex with her. Just because she may sleep around etc doesn't meant she wants it 24/7 and will start humping your leg on the first date.
Like I said, give it some time, and if she doesn't get back in touch, no love lost.
sorry, that wasn't helpful at all. good luck and stuff :thumb:
me too!!!
four :thumb: god its been a long day.....
five
i like small girls
Having said that, it might be a step too far by keeping score. And if you're making her wait for a text, 20 minutes should be long enough, 3 hours later she might have fallen asleep.
Stop playing games, sheesh thats the one way to lose her.............seriously.