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Why are men bastards??
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Ok, then, most men...although personally I have yet to meet one that isn't.
I have had ONE proper relationship & he was a complete tosser, so I don't see him anymore (he left me when I was pregnant, what a nice lad)
I have met several guys but even when they DO show an interest in me, it fizzles out, mostly within days, and then they decide they don't wanna see me anymore.
In fact, I even went onto a dating website, and met someone nice on there, but again, WHAT A TOSSER!!!
So, come on guys, what is it that attracts you to a girl? Why do you find it so easy to let girls down and not even care??
I have had ONE proper relationship & he was a complete tosser, so I don't see him anymore (he left me when I was pregnant, what a nice lad)
I have met several guys but even when they DO show an interest in me, it fizzles out, mostly within days, and then they decide they don't wanna see me anymore.
In fact, I even went onto a dating website, and met someone nice on there, but again, WHAT A TOSSER!!!
So, come on guys, what is it that attracts you to a girl? Why do you find it so easy to let girls down and not even care??
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Not all men are bastards, 80% of them are but the other 20% are just stupid.
You made some bad choices, happens to everyone, have a whinge if it helps but don't get caught up in self pity because that is definitley not attractive!
You need to know how to tell the difference between the bastards and the stupid ones, because it's us stupid ones who are the nice ones if you get to know us.
but personally, i rekon most men are only interested in sex.
I dunno maybe it IS just me - I could just attract them lol!
And I know there are nice fellas out there - I see them every day in town...with thier lovely girlfriends
I suppose I'm just a bit envious with those girls with the nice men. It must be nice to be treated like a lady lol
Ok, how do you expect to be treated? Give a few specifics.
yeah, like most women are only interested in £££, the flash cars and gucci handbags.........sad old world innit :rolleyes:
yes but you're not empathising, you're reinforcing a misunderstanding.........of course men like sex, as far as i'm aware that's not a sin........there's no genetic coding that says men can't see past a quick shag, it's more to do with the culture we live in.......a lot of the rhetoric is down to looking macho in front of your mates, when you find a girl you love sex is just an expression of that, not the be all and end all........imo.
I've said it before, I'll say it again, I'm a bloke and yet sex, to me, isn't remotely important. If my girlfriend decided the only occasions we'd have sex in future would be specifically to produce children then that wouldn't deter me from staying with her. Besides, I hear that's what marriage is like.
well, thanks, but it's not like i'm the only one out there.........
......i wouldn't say sex is unimportant, in fact quite the opposite, just that it's more about the girl then how quickly i can get her into bed......and i think sex drive does slow down after marriage, makes biological sense if you think about it.........
the trick to a successful relationship is to find someone with their inner bastardness in ways that doesn't bother you as much.
Yeah and then they get bored of Mr Nice treating them like a princess all the time so they cheat on him with the sort of chaps you are complaining about, women are funny old things and the grass is always greener on the other side.
Yep, I agree totally.
When I first saw this thread, I almost steamrollered in with the intention of pointing out that my last 2 girlfriends have cheated on me.
Then thought, hang on, it's one of those
All Men are bastards
All women are bitches
Not all men are bastards
Not all women are bitches
Yeah some are nice, just some people are nasty
Some words of wisdom, internet links to various other websites eg the ladder theory
http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html
And was going to let this thread go that way as well... but felt I had to vent a little
Ladies and Gentlemen, you're all cunts!