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Am I a slut?
BillieTheBot
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I need your help!
I have a reputaion as being a bit of a slut.
I personally dont think i am ive only had consenting sex with 2 peopleand 1 sort of sex but not thing when i was drunk.
but some how people think im a slut.
yes when i get drunk i i do silly things i know that.
and yes i kiss a lot of people but in my area kissing is nothing.
i just dnt understand why people call me a slut.
if you can make sence of my total waffle of a question would you be so kind as to help me.
thank you.
ZELLA
I have a reputaion as being a bit of a slut.
I personally dont think i am ive only had consenting sex with 2 peopleand 1 sort of sex but not thing when i was drunk.
but some how people think im a slut.
yes when i get drunk i i do silly things i know that.
and yes i kiss a lot of people but in my area kissing is nothing.
i just dnt understand why people call me a slut.
if you can make sence of my total waffle of a question would you be so kind as to help me.
thank you.
ZELLA
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But are you *easy*??
You must be giving your friends some reason for calling you a slut !! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
And what in heaven's name of a planet is your signature on? Make it make sense... and spelt....
Except that it's in the wrong order <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
I wholly understand why they call you a slut.
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Ok 2 people b4 you are legal may seem more than usual. But saying that one of my best friends lost his V at 13. Were you in a relationship with these guys? The one drunken thing happens to all of us once.
The question you need to ask is are people calling you a slut because you have had sex will 2 (or 3) people or because you snog everyone? If its just snogging , then just calm yourself down a bit (but don't stop having fun).
Regarding your other "daft things" you do when drunk please explain?
Take Care
At school I was called a slag just for sleeping with 1 person, who cares? The next day they will be bitching about someone else.
But if you do things you regret when drunk you need to be moe careful.
i dont think that you can say that to her,
she could have been in a loving relationship with the 2 people she has slept with so i dont think you could call that being a slut
and as for getting drunk at 15 well you might want to see what other 15 year olds(and younger) do these days most people (ok maybe not all) but most 15 year olds have been drunk before
so Zella i dont think you sound like a slut
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but just be carefull
[ 30-05-2002: Message edited by: **sugar** ]
I kinda meant my last comment as a joke, but you sure did get defensive so maybe I was right on. Its ok if you want to sleep around a bit it your body. I'd be a hypocrite if I stated otherwise. But as unfortunate as it is, a young girl who gets drunk and goes about in that manner is going to be labled in derogatory ways, especially at the age of 15 when the vast majority of girls are still getting their tits felt or a pinky in their vagina.
These days when I don't run around presenting my penis in various places that could get me in trouble, I'm quite proud of myself and certainly not jealous of others who do.
Getting drunk at 15 isnt all that shocking. heck, I'm 37 and even I started drinking beer at 13 with the help of older friends. Furthermore, the original poster stated clearly that she cared very deeply for the two people she slept with which is not "running around spreading her legs..."
If you don't have helpful comments to make to our younger set, please refrain from commenting at all. Thanks.
People judge others all through life. What matters most is yourself and how you feel (and not hurting anyone else).
For the record, I'm not a slut although as I have not saved myself for marriage and have slept with more than 1 person then some may consider me to be. But I don't really care.
But if none of your friends have slept with anyone then it may be seen as being out of the ordinary in which case people may call you a slut. I know if I lost my virginity then I would get called a slut because I don't think anyone would expect it from me.
Does anyone understand any of that?
Loopy loz xxx
i sed no to him but he carried on! it wasnt my fault! <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
i fact i have so there!
i met one when i was 12 and one at 14.