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"Love You"
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How would you feel if your boyfriend had been out for the evening with one of his girl mates and afterwards she text him saying it was nice to see him etc, suggested seeing him again soon ended it with "Luvu xxx" and he replied to her saying "yeh of course love you more x x x x" Would it bother you at all?
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Some people just put "luv u" etc at the end of every text, but to put "love you more"? A bit dodgy methinks. So yeah, it would bother me a bit.
But that's just me.
Don't want to sound like a stupid, horrid boy but is this an important difference? Surely misspelling doesn't change the meaning of the word?
which is why I wouldn't
but yes, unless they're life long freinds & are like brother & sister, it's not very appropriate behaviour.
jon; generally (no idea why) luv is seen to be more freindly than love. Stupid text talk...
yeh, there could be a messy situation there... Talking to him to get things straight is definately the best option
In that case yep, it don't look to good
I say love to friends, and tell them to stop saying luv because it's stupid but I'm just pedantic. If my girlfriend did it, would I be bothered? Not if it was a good friend of hers, if it was some new guy then I'd probably be wary.
It all depends how secure the partner feels tbh. Do you think that your friend has feelings for you then? I don't have romantic feelings for anyone other than my girlfriend but I still love them to bits - and I can be quite expressive about that. If it's out of character for him I'd say it was more an issue (because why the change?) - but if he's always been friendly and just says he loves you then his girlfriend will likely be used to it.
Ha yes i hate that 'word' Thankfully i don't know anyone that does it post 14, even in cards and stuff i write love though, doesn't mean i have a raging passion for any of my friends or anything though.
If your a bothered/confused about it you could casually mention it to your friend and then see where that conversation takes you.