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Turn ons-scared 2 say!
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hiya peeps,
my ex (that druggie) asked me on numerous times what turns me on, and i kept avoiding the answers. im scared 2 say n e thing, and i also dont realy know wot 2 say!
i know certain things make me feel v.frisky ie certain aftershaves, havin my belly kissed and blown on etc, playin with my hair!
is this the type of thing i shud b sayin.
ive always been realy shy and never explored my self 2 find wot i like as im 2 scared.
wot kinda things turns u lot on, if u dont mind me askin.
ta darlings, this is stressin me out.
H.xxxxxx
my ex (that druggie) asked me on numerous times what turns me on, and i kept avoiding the answers. im scared 2 say n e thing, and i also dont realy know wot 2 say!
i know certain things make me feel v.frisky ie certain aftershaves, havin my belly kissed and blown on etc, playin with my hair!
is this the type of thing i shud b sayin.
ive always been realy shy and never explored my self 2 find wot i like as im 2 scared.
wot kinda things turns u lot on, if u dont mind me askin.
ta darlings, this is stressin me out.
H.xxxxxx
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i dose not matter what peeps think of the things that turn you on!
as longas your blokey knows! wink wink nugde nugde!
i will admit there are a few things that get me going that are a bit strange!
i love what you said though! i love!!!!!!! my blokey playing with my hair! especially when he touches the back of my hair!
don't worry !
what eva turns your buttons is your business! and if peeps think its strange tell them to fuck it! thats what i say!!
lurve you all
Thedevilherself!
I haven't found anything that turns me on, even any type of kissing. I'm a freak like that <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> I just avoid answering if it comes up.... so I know what you mean about not knowing what to say. Don't be scared though, if he likes you he won't mind what you say.
ur boyfriend is not psychic. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> if you tell him what you like, it won't seem like he's constantly on a lost expedition to find what turns u on. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
make sure he tell u what he likes too. then it's really good...
good luck helly.
One of my fave fantasies are to be 'kidnapped' and not know who it si at all. They would tie you up(gently but firmly) and they totally satisfy you without you having to do anything in return.
whats so great about this is not knowing-who,what next,when just exciting pleasure and be dominated
Apart from that, all the things you mentioned in your post sounded fine to me, i love having my back stroked and my tummy kissed. xx
making bread? I don't tell anyone that.
FYI, the whole SM thing leaves me cold