Turn ons-scared 2 say!

Former Member

hiya peeps,
my ex (that druggie) asked me on numerous times what turns me on, and i kept avoiding the answers. im scared 2 say n e thing, and i also dont realy know wot 2 say!
i know certain things make me feel v.frisky ie certain aftershaves, havin my belly kissed and blown on etc, playin with my hair!
is this the type of thing i shud b sayin.
ive always been realy shy and never explored my self 2 find wot i like as im 2 scared.
wot kinda things turns u lot on, if u dont mind me askin.
ta darlings, this is stressin me out.
H.xxxxxx

Former Member

hay helly!
i dose not matter what peeps think of the things that turn you on!
as longas your blokey knows! wink wink nugde nugde!
i will admit there are a few things that get me going that are a bit strange!
i love what you said though! i love!!!!!!! my blokey playing with my hair! especially when he touches the back of my hair!
don't worry !
what eva turns your buttons is your business! and if peeps think its strange tell them to fuck it! thats what i say!!
lurve you all
Thedevilherself!

Former Member

Don't feel embarrassed about it, the guy only asks so he knows what you like! I doubt he'd laugh even if you said something really odd, and the things you said there are perfectly normal, so don't be shy! If you are, try asking him what turns him on before you answer, that should make you feel more relaxed.

I haven't found anything that turns me on, even any type of kissing. I'm a freak like that <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; I just avoid answering if it comes up.... so I know what you mean about not knowing what to say. Don't be scared though, if he likes you he won't mind what you say.

Former Member

what wild said.

ur boyfriend is not psychic. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; if you tell him what you like, it won't seem like he's constantly on a lost expedition to find what turns u on. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

make sure he tell u what he likes too. then it's really good...

good luck helly.

Former Member

Alot of the things my boyfriend does turns me on.Just having his hands on me is a great turn on.
One of my fave fantasies are to be 'kidnapped' and not know who it si at all. They would tie you up(gently but firmly) and they totally satisfy you without you having to do anything in return.
whats so great about this is not knowing-who,what next,when just exciting pleasure and be dominated

Former Member

I'm like cheeky, the whole submission/ domination thing turns me on. teasing really turns me on.my boyfriend in general turns me on... he's SO hot. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

Former Member

If you find it hard to come up with a list of things that turn you on, just wait till he's doing something that feels really good, then let him know! Just something like "mmm thats really good" will let him know that he's on the right track and he'll do it again soon (hopefully!)

Apart from that, all the things you mentioned in your post sounded fine to me, i love having my back stroked and my tummy kissed. xx

Former Member

holdinghands on a windswept beach, stoking the back of my head, the smell of men, sucking cock. All reasonable.

making bread? I don't tell anyone that.

FYI, the whole SM thing leaves me cold