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I dont understand???
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This will prob sound so so stupid but I need a bit of advice/help....
The thing is Iam 24 and getting into a serious relationship, and my bf is so good and kind. He really wants to make me happy and bring me to orgasm.
But my prob is I can even make myself feel turned on. I have lived a sheltered life and only recently began experimenting with my body. I took a mirror and was examining myself.
Everyone keeps saying to rub / stroke the clit but I cant find my clit. Maybe Iam not normal! I have like looked at the lips and vagina etc. When I look at the vagina there looks to be like a bit in the middle (in the actual vagina)...whats going on....?
Can someone help...Please?
The thing is Iam 24 and getting into a serious relationship, and my bf is so good and kind. He really wants to make me happy and bring me to orgasm.
But my prob is I can even make myself feel turned on. I have lived a sheltered life and only recently began experimenting with my body. I took a mirror and was examining myself.
Everyone keeps saying to rub / stroke the clit but I cant find my clit. Maybe Iam not normal! I have like looked at the lips and vagina etc. When I look at the vagina there looks to be like a bit in the middle (in the actual vagina)...whats going on....?
Can someone help...Please?
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The clit will be covered most of the time.
This site has pictures (not porn)
http://www.luckymojo.com/faqs/altsex/vulva.html
Let your fingers do the walking and you will find what you seek.
If you dont feel turned on ever, maybe you just dont fancy your partner. Have you ever felt turned on by anyone?
Are you on contraception?
Also some people just don't have as much of a sex drive as others, maybe that has something to do with it not being easy to get turned on. :chin:
grrrr, it made more sense in my head, I promise you!
i think the main thing is that u have to relax and if u worry too much about it then u wont be able too get there... oh yer and continue to explore! lol