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Being attractive makes it more difficult to pull anybody
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discuss... i'll contribute my thoughts later.
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Shyness makes it difficult to pull.
Being an arrogant prick or full of yourself doesn't make it difficult to pull as there will always be people who are impressed by that for one night. Might be difficult to develop a relationship though.
Hmm. To be fair I think that there's an equal number of girls who are just after some sex too. It is not the preserve of the man.
being attractive and a total dickhead makes it harder to pull people.
the people i know who are stunning and also funny and interesting and smart seem to have no troubles at all.
Having a username like Fit and I Know It isn't going to help you pull either sunshine! :crazyeyes
It is harder for good looking people to find genuine relationships.
Ilora x
A moment ago you said it was 'harder for good looking people to pull'
:yes:
Ilora x
how do u know they are looking at you because they think you are good looking? They could be laughing inside and think you look hideous
not being mean, just realistic!
people look at people just as much if they think someone is funny looking as to good looking
Unless i start to flirt with either of them i will not react well to bein groped.
If an attractive random tries to grope me however i am more likely to get annoyed cos i think he thinks that just cos he is fit he can touch what he likes, and also why do blokes even do that grabbing of the boob thing!! it hardly turns us girls on lol just irritates us!!
I wouldnt know whether i come into the unattractive or attractive category, but i NEVER pull when i go out. I get groped frequently, but rarely spoken to, or offered a drink or whatever!! I think that i am reasonably confident but i just dont know what to say to a bloke in the first instance!
Plus, i'd never try and pull for any reason other than quick sex lol
I think that maybe i am more defensive with someone who is better looking because i think they shouldnt get girls falling at their feet just cos they are good looking. Plus the ones who are good looking where i go out, are GENERALLY the twats that you stay away from lol
hmmmm prob havent discussed that point too well, always go off on a random tangent! lol
Ilora x
hmm..i cant tell
If a man smiles at me, it could mean that he's eyeing me up, but it could also mean he's smiling because he thinks im funny looking
maybe if you're having trouble pulling, it's either cause you have the social skills of a snail, or you just aren't as hot as you think you are.
Exactly. People who think that they are attractive, or even those people who are attractive but know it and act like it just come across as arrogant which is a turn off.