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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    isn't it so nice when someone tells you that they just wanna cuddle you ... and not let go? best thing...they want nothing else! i remember my ex told me one day...and i was so touched!! it's so nice!!

    bet ut forgivin this time easy T...right flower?? hehe...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by angelfire383:
    what would you prefer? a session of sex or a session of just being close, cuddling, kissing in front of the t.v ? i don't know how to answer this one as im still a virgin as i like to wait for the one - unfortunately, i still haven't met him yet. but i really like just cuddling and kissing and enjoying the closeness with no need of words. what about you all out there?

    I am actually still a virgin although I am in a fairly long term relationship.Me and my partner do cuddle alot and sometimes(most of) we enjoy sessions of foreplay.

    To answer yr question I think cuddling is just as good as sex as long it is with someone who you are really close to and is unconditional.Just depends on moods really.Dont look at sex alone and cuddling alone-look at the intimate feelings between the two people.Do yopu understand what I'm saying?I'm kind of confusing myself now.Anyway thanks for reading.

    love CHEEKy

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Another thing of cuddles-dont you just feel so warm,safe and secure and compared to sex -effortless?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by angelfire383:
    isn't it so nice when someone tells you that they just wanna cuddle you ... and not let go? best thing...they want nothing else! i remember my ex told me one day...and i was so touched!! it's so nice!!

    bet ut forgivin this time easy T...right flower?? hehe...


    sadly i cant comment because SOME people around here dont appreciate it when i say things like that <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
    he's always forgiven. it's sick really.
    (no comments turtletoise)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by IcKleMoNSteR:

    sadly i cant comment because SOME people around here dont appreciate it when i say things like that <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
    he's always forgiven. it's sick really.
    (no comments turtletoise)

    *refrains from commenting*

    I don't live to work, I work to live and I live at the weekends. I'm the last of the big time drinkers.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by IcKleMoNSteR:

    sadly i cant comment because SOME people around here dont appreciate it when i say things like that <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
    he's always forgiven. it's sick really.
    (no comments turtletoise)

    he appreciates being forgiven. he also appreciates that she didn't say "HE'S sick really" <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;



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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtletoise:
    *refrains from commenting*



    how come he listens to u ickle?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Easy T:

    how come he listens to u ickle?

    coz im so very scary. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cuddling

    DONT WORRY, BE HAPPY!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by IcKleMoNSteR:
    coz im so very scary. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    It's true, i know it.

    I don't live to work, I work to live and I live at the weekends. I'm the last of the big time drinkers.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    in all cases, me and my gf would just get so turned on after a cuddling session, the rest was history.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by CHEEKy:
    Another thing of cuddles-dont you just feel so warm,safe and secure and compared to sex -effortless?

    i personally agree with this one. it's not called lazy i think. but just cuddling doesn't cost as much as sex can cost you. im not talking about the the price of consequences here though that counts too. emotionally, it doesn't take much effort either. like, sometimes you fake organsms in sex but what is there to fake in a cuddle?? it's completely EFFORTLESS! maybe im confusing some people here...but oh well...just what i think!

    oh...and im a virgin too...so i can't even really answer my own question...just wanna to know all the different opinions out there.




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