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sex or cudding?
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what would you prefer? a session of sex or a session of just being close, cuddling, kissing in front of the t.v ? i don't know how to answer this one as im still a virgin as i like to wait for the one - unfortunately, i still haven't met him yet. but i really like just cuddling and kissing and enjoying the closeness with no need of words. what about you all out there?
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Session of sex????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol, I'm much too old for that lol
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
You're never too old!!!
Seriously though I'd have to go for a cosy night in front of the tv or infront of a fire with a botlle of wine and soft music in the background Kissing and cuddling and generally being close. With my beloved obviously <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Luk
The river is wide and oh so deep. I've been walking around in tears, No answers arethere to get. Cause between this world and eternity there is a face I hope to see
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
(if its with someone you like/love)
cuddling is wicked, sex is great but a good cuddle with someone who really gets where you are coming from, be it best mate, b/f etc..its cool....
im not dissing sex here, but for closeness, cuddlin wins hands down everytime, and also-sometimes you just cant be arsed with the full on shag thang....
take care
cheekeytrickster
cos it makes me feel like im actually being cared about instead of being used.
there are many things that i would like to say to you, but i dont know how.
but I guess if I had to pick one I'd say cuddling too.
After you have a lot of sex, you kinda forget about just having one big makeout session like you did before you ever started having sex. Its great <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
sex everytime.
if the tv wasn't a part of it, much harder.
but then sex can turn to cuddling, and vice versa.
I guess I'd go for cuddles 7 times of 10
Sorwee - just saying what I think <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Marvin
"And then she asked me, 'Do I look alright?' And I say 'Yes, you look wonderful tonight.'"
It shows you care more, besides eventually you do the long loving movie kiss. Then its her hands down your pants, and your down hers. If you go further that great!!
But you should always find time for a cuddle.
I cuddle before, I cuddle afterwards.
Not getting caught is only half the fun!!
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Only 1?
I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
Shell go crazy n do dirty things to you n you dont want that now do you?
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anyway we're going clubbing for his bday lol, lots of alcohol there <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
no i dont wanna get drunk or i'll be throwing up and stuff, not the most attractive thing to do! lol
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
No I wouldn't want that at all <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> I'll let you have the bottle Emma and I'll have a glass of water <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
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I'd better give you the recipe for the formula Mark <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
Examples: American Pie (Which is a documentry not a film) or something like Scream. They're two simple examples off the top of my head before you go sayin I ain't got no taste in films! (As some of my mates do, but then half of them still like power rangers coz they are drugged up... I steer clear of them, but thats a topic for the other board).
Not getting caught is only half the fun!!
I'm the rest!!
for sex u've got to worry about all kinds of shite e.g. nerves, performance, potency, size, contraception, STD's, your figure....fuck that.
need I say more. Im taking my new girl one step at a time <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
SHIT!!!
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
I feel the same. but I've got noone to be close to at the moment...well, i do, but I can;t be close to her!! grrr...life's a bitch...
I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
So forget I said that and go on with your lives. (Its stuff like that which made me think of myself as insane. Plus I think too much, which I hate... always thinking. Alone. Quietly. Just thinking.)
Hmmm, I need a girl (one who'll love me back this time)
Not getting caught is only half the fun!!
I'm the rest!!
Always thinking, like Johnson the pink elephant.
I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
I'd agree ... cuddling is a great start to other things. I don't understand how cuddling can be better for boys when I get so aroused by close contact, scent etc of my girlfriend ...
mark said he would love to give you a slap and tell you to shut up! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
noooo i think its called johnson and friends or something innit? and there's a robot and a groovy accordion kinda thing too. blimey, long time since ive seen that show.
or it could just b the one from charlie chalk. gawd i loved that.
anyways, seeing as im in this topic, even though ive responded before..
cuddling makes me feel special and wanted, and people dont generally use you for cuddles <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> except me, cuz in the words of me cuzzy becky "Youre just a cuddle sorta person kayls". but when it's with someone special, and ur both chilling out with music or a cool movie or something, it's really special.
sex, is complicated. im not sayin it's not good stuff.. i just havent had any experience of the good kind <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
so sometimes, when sex is on the cards, i feel a bit uncomfortable. maybe because im scared of screwing things up, or getting flashbacks or something nasty like that. as much as it's intimate between two people, that vision of sex has in a way been destroyed for me. it's a formality, and it makes me feel small. sorry, im going on a bit.
cuddling. definitely cuddling. more of the just plain good natured innocent love.
you've heard of the golden rule havent you? ...whoever has the gold makes the rules.
©lovely freaks
sorry flower. now i understand.
i love you. and when we cuddle, i'm never ever letting go.
and that's sooooo enough.
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Take my hand and we'll make it I swear...