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I think im pregnant!!!!
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This is just f**ked up! Ive been throwing up ALL night my periods haven't came and i'm really sore!Im goin 2 the doctors 2nite!But last time i slept with anyone was a month ago!!! Im so scared!
Love GrizzlyB
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Try not to worry bout it. Just wait until u c wot da doc ses, and even if it turn out u r, like rachael sed, there r plenty of options.
I wish i could help more <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
Try 2 keep calm
Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
Dk
I never said I loved you...
However I will fuck you...
until someone better comes along!!!!
but try not to panic too much, good luck at the docs tonight!
plenty of options.... god i might as well have quoted everyone else's post!! hehe
think positive <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
miss sophis
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BaRt
"get pleasures out of the little things in life. step on an ant" IcKleMoNSteR - BRILLIANT!
just remember, like everyone said, there are plenty of options, and it isnt a trap. YOU control what happens next-if you are.
we r all worried bout u
Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
Hey <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
Well...i am pregnant at 16yrs old(almost 17)! I dont knows whose it is but i rekon it was my ex's!But he's not having anything to do with it(i decided)! God,how scarey is this!Ill keep you guyz informed though dont worry1 My last few dayz have been a bit mad as you can imagine!
Love GizzlyB <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
I hope all goes well. Oh yeah, I never could find you on chat!
hope ur ok.
are u going to keep it? have u told ur parents?
maybe u shud talk 2 lolly.
We're here if u want to talk <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
(((((grizzly)))))
Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
Im sorry to hear this has happened, and I hiope u r dealing with it the best u can.
If u dont no already I am due to have a baby in two weeks, and although I am older than u, Im still only 18 so I can relate to what u r goin through. If u need anything then just ask and Ill try and b the best help I can.
Why dont u want your ex to have anything to do with the baby? I think that if he is willing to stick around and give u some sort of help then u should definatly allow this, if not for u but the sake of your baby. I am on my own too, but that was his choice and not mine, if I thought for one minute that he would b a part of my babies life, and by that I mean takie financial responsability too, then Id definatly go for it. Its your choice though.
Anyway, hope that u r ok and take care!
How far along are you? Did the doctor say? I dont really know what to say.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
Love Lil Teapot
what are you going to do?
is it likely to be anyone else's apart from your exes? yu can have a paternity test when its been born, if you decide to keep it and really dont know whose it is (if the potential fathers agree coz you need to take soome of their DNA). unless your ex is a total bastard and is likely to harm your child either physically or emotionally, maybe its a good idea to let him be a part of it. and financial responsibility too of course.
let us know what you decide and how you are and stuff! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
You know that you have a wealth of experience on thesite and there's always gonna be someone here to chear you up & to offer support & advice.
Whatever you decide to do, you will get support <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
As J9 said there are lots of people here who can help you out and we are all listening to you!!!!
Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
we're all here, whatever you decide.
Dk
(remember, every cloud has that silver lining. or so someone said!)
I never said I loved you...
However I will fuck you...
until someone better comes along!!!!
Good luck, you know where we are if you need some help advice or support... take care
Luv
Luk
The river is wide and oh so deep. I've been walking around in tears, No answers arethere to get. Cause between this world and eternity there is a face I hope to see
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Thanx guyz! We'll the reason i dont want my ex involved with it is coz I dont want my baby growing up with cheating,lying bastard! I thought about getting it adoptid but ive been watching eastenders and i would hate if i was in Soina's place!I know its a tv show but still,it could happen! Im just over a month! God,this is gonna be wierd! You guyz can all be the baby's godparents!(i know im mad)!
Love GrizzlyB <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
im not sure u should let ur baby near some of these lot <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
awwwwwwwwww im a godparent. woo hoo!
Am I part of this "lot" icky?
I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
I'm sure whatever you decide to do will be the right thing.
Just remember, like everyone else has said: We are always here 4 u no matter what.
Jules
xxxxx
Ps. Have u told ur parents? What do they think?
"I just want to feel safe in my own skin. I just want to be happy again." -Dido
sorry but happy to hear ur news, congratulations hun, im sure u will make a wicked mum. im sure u'll manage fine, have u told your parents? wot did they say? soz if im being nosy.
n e way, good luck, hope the sickness passes quickly.
loads 'a' love helly
I feel for you Griz, I really do.
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Grizzly}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
But please don't let Eastenders alter your decision! I'm not for adoption or anything, but this is your choice, don't let a soap influence you.
You are at least going to tell this lad, aren't you? (We'll call him Tos Ser). Tos maybe a real arsehole, but wouldn't you want your baby to at least know you gave him the option (tell me to mind my own business if you want.)
What if he/she wants to know who daddy is when they're older? If this lad really is a basyard, then he probably won't want to know anyway (seen it happen) but...I don't know. If I was in that situation, I'd want to know who my father was. Your choice <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> Just think about it though.
Love and Luck - Chica
When is the baby due then?
so don't be disheartened.