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I think im pregnant!!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

Hey <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
This is just f**ked up! Ive been throwing up ALL night my periods haven't came and i'm really sore!Im goin 2 the doctors 2nite!But last time i slept with anyone was a month ago!!! Im so scared!
Love GrizzlyB
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    (((((GrizzlyB)))))

    Try not to worry bout it. Just wait until u c wot da doc ses, and even if it turn out u r, like rachael sed, there r plenty of options.

    I wish i could help more <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    Try 2 keep calm


    Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    First things first, dont panic. if you do you will only get worried over what could be nothing, ok? and second of all. RELAX!!!! the two posts preceeding mine tell you there are planty of options, and there are.
    Dk

    I never said I loved you...
    However I will fuck you...
    until someone better comes along!!!!
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    everyone's already said what i would say!

    but try not to panic too much, good luck at the docs tonight!

    plenty of options.... god i might as well have quoted everyone else's post!! hehe

    think positive <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah, try and do your best to relax, periods can be affected my anxiety so just take it easy and keep focused on things.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Everythings already been said, and i know this is a bit late, but I know how you feel Grizzly, and I know you'll be dead scared to go and get a test but you definitely have to because its worth it in the end. You just have to find out. Good luck.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Good luck grizzley, hope that things turn out how u want them too. How old r u anyway if u dont mind me asking?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah good luck.
    miss sophis
    ____x______
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So what happened have you got the test or what?!?

    BaRt
    "get pleasures out of the little things in life. step on an ant" IcKleMoNSteR - BRILLIANT!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    grizzly, we all really really want to know the result. im actually quite concerned. hope it was ok <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;
    just remember, like everyone said, there are plenty of options, and it isnt a trap. YOU control what happens next-if you are.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah grizzly, wot happened?

    we r all worried bout u

    Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Hey <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    Well...i am pregnant at 16yrs old(almost 17)! I dont knows whose it is but i rekon it was my ex's!But he's not having anything to do with it(i decided)! God,how scarey is this!Ill keep you guyz informed though dont worry1 My last few dayz have been a bit mad as you can imagine!
    Love GizzlyB <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What are you going to do? Keep it, adoption? What?
    I hope all goes well. Oh yeah, I never could find you on chat!

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ((((((grizzly)))))

    hope ur ok.

    are u going to keep it? have u told ur parents?

    maybe u shud talk 2 lolly.

    We're here if u want to talk <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    (((((grizzly)))))

    Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Grizzlybear:

    Hey <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    Well...i am pregnant at 16yrs old(almost 17)! I dont knows whose it is but i rekon it was my ex's!But he's not having anything to do with it(i decided)! God,how scarey is this!Ill keep you guyz informed though dont worry1 My last few dayz have been a bit mad as you can imagine!
    Love GizzlyB <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Im sorry to hear this has happened, and I hiope u r dealing with it the best u can.
    If u dont no already I am due to have a baby in two weeks, and although I am older than u, Im still only 18 so I can relate to what u r goin through. If u need anything then just ask and Ill try and b the best help I can.
    Why dont u want your ex to have anything to do with the baby? I think that if he is willing to stick around and give u some sort of help then u should definatly allow this, if not for u but the sake of your baby. I am on my own too, but that was his choice and not mine, if I thought for one minute that he would b a part of my babies life, and by that I mean takie financial responsability too, then Id definatly go for it. Its your choice though.
    Anyway, hope that u r ok and take care!

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im so sorry for you?

    How far along are you? Did the doctor say? I dont really know what to say.
    Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

    Love Lil Teapot
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    im sorry to hear that grizzy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; ((((((((grizzly)))))))

    what are you going to do?

    is it likely to be anyone else's apart from your exes? yu can have a paternity test when its been born, if you decide to keep it and really dont know whose it is (if the potential fathers agree coz you need to take soome of their DNA). unless your ex is a total bastard and is likely to harm your child either physically or emotionally, maybe its a good idea to let him be a part of it. and financial responsibility too of course.

    let us know what you decide and how you are and stuff! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't know what to say Grizzly. Trouble is, being the age I am I tend to love hearing that people are pregnant, I'm sorry if that's inapropriate.

    You know that you have a wealth of experience on thesite and there's always gonna be someone here to chear you up & to offer support & advice.

    Whatever you decide to do, you will get support <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    j9

    I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.

    MTS ^5 ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Grizzly}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

    As J9 said there are lots of people here who can help you out and we are all listening to you!!!!

    Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aww babes come here {{{{{{{{grizzly}}}}}}}}
    we're all here, whatever you decide.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Want me to kick this guys ass for ya? Im sure some of the others on this site would like to join me. But good luck and Im sure in the end everything will be fine (((Grizzly)))

    Dk

    (remember, every cloud has that silver lining. or so someone said!)

    I never said I loved you...
    However I will fuck you...
    until someone better comes along!!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    {{{{{{{{{{Grizzlie}}}}}}}}}}}}
    Good luck, you know where we are if you need some help advice or support... take care
    Luv
    Luk

    The river is wide and oh so deep. I've been walking around in tears, No answers arethere to get. Cause between this world and eternity there is a face I hope to see
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Hey <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    Thanx guyz! We'll the reason i dont want my ex involved with it is coz I dont want my baby growing up with cheating,lying bastard! I thought about getting it adoptid but ive been watching eastenders and i would hate if i was in Soina's place!I know its a tv show but still,it could happen! Im just over a month! God,this is gonna be wierd! You guyz can all be the baby's godparents!(i know im mad)!
    Love GrizzlyB <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Grizzlybear:

    Hey <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    Thanx guyz! We'll the reason i dont want my ex involved with it is coz I dont want my baby growing up with cheating,lying bastard! I thought about getting it adoptid but ive been watching eastenders and i would hate if i was in Soina's place!I know its a tv show but still,it could happen! Im just over a month! God,this is gonna be wierd! You guyz can all be the baby's godparents!(i know im mad)!
    Love GrizzlyB <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    im not sure u should let ur baby near some of these lot <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    awwwwwwwwww im a godparent. woo hoo!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by IcKleMoNSteR:
    im not sure u should let ur baby near some of these lot <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    awwwwwwwwww im a godparent. woo hoo!

    Am I part of this "lot" icky?

    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    God luck babes,
    I'm sure whatever you decide to do will be the right thing.
    Just remember, like everyone else has said: We are always here 4 u no matter what.
    Jules
    xxxxx

    Ps. Have u told ur parents? What do they think?

    "I just want to feel safe in my own skin. I just want to be happy again." -Dido
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hiya darling,
    sorry but happy to hear ur news, congratulations hun, im sure u will make a wicked mum. im sure u'll manage fine, have u told your parents? wot did they say? soz if im being nosy.
    n e way, good luck, hope the sickness passes quickly.
    loads 'a' love helly
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    I feel for you Griz, I really do.

    {{{{{{{{{{{{{{Grizzly}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

    But please don't let Eastenders alter your decision! I'm not for adoption or anything, but this is your choice, don't let a soap influence you.

    You are at least going to tell this lad, aren't you? (We'll call him Tos Ser). Tos maybe a real arsehole, but wouldn't you want your baby to at least know you gave him the option (tell me to mind my own business if you want.)

    What if he/she wants to know who daddy is when they're older? If this lad really is a basyard, then he probably won't want to know anyway (seen it happen) but...I don't know. If I was in that situation, I'd want to know who my father was. Your choice <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; Just think about it though.

    Love and Luck - Chica
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Grizzlybear:

    Hey <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    Thanx guyz! We'll the reason i dont want my ex involved with it is coz I dont want my baby growing up with cheating,lying bastard! I thought about getting it adoptid but ive been watching eastenders and i would hate if i was in Soina's place!I know its a tv show but still,it could happen! Im just over a month! God,this is gonna be wierd! You guyz can all be the baby's godparents!(i know im mad)!
    Love GrizzlyB <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


    When is the baby due then?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    but i've also seen guys realise that they've walked away and gone back....
    so don't be disheartened.

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