New here, am I a bi-male?

Former Member · May 2005

hmmm i might be wrong but its just a thought since u have a unique dick that many guys dont have maybe the fact of knowing this creates the urge of showing this to other men but with out this thought i would say it could be u being expermental and if this is just seen as fun and not cheating then if she had a problem like yours and you found out what would you see it as...

for a answer to your problem i think u said u tried to give it up maybe u could find something to replace that urge with your fiancee, come up with something totally new and when u get that urge turn to yur fiancee but then if that dosen't work your going to have to ask which makes u the most happy being with yur fiancee or 5 - 10 mins of having someone masturbate u.

hope i've helped.

Former Member · May 2005

bust1too wrote:

No, I"m not gay, might be bi, or just a freak, help me decide.

I don't think it's really for us to answer that tbh. Only you know the answer, we can't enter your mind and think what you think..this is something you need to decided/discover for youself. No amount of advice over the internet will make you come to a decision about something as important as your sexuality.

If you really are confused, then I suggest a time out from your girlfriend. Or, if you consider her to be somewhat open-minded, tell her the truth..
I think that if you get this off your chest you will feel a lot better. Sure, your gf may be hurt at first, but she will value your honesty in the long term.

Former Member · May 2005

No, I"m not gay, might be bi, or just a freak, help me decide.[/QUOTE]

You are Bi straight blokes dont like having their dick fondeled and wanked off by other blokes, also if they had a youthfull gay experence they didnt enjoy it and didnt keep going back for more, youd do it again wont you and at some point more than wanking off ?

Former Member · May 2005

I think that you must know that what you are doing is wrong for no other reason than you have a girl friend, otherwise why would you have considered telling her?

If your girlfriend felt that she had needs that couldnt be met by you and went elswhere to get them would you consider it cheating? If you have agreed to bein a monogomous relationship you really need to either stop doing it or finish with her.

My opinin os to not tell her even if you are going to finish with her. If you decide to continue what you are doing you will hurt her by finishing it why cause her more pain.

*eta* Oh and how can can mastrubation be cheating? its giving YOURSELF pleasure!

Former Member · May 2005

Instead of focussing on what label you'd like to wear in night clubs... Why don't you focus on who you love and what really floats your boat?

We are who we love...

Former Member · May 2005

Hiya
Have you considered talking these problems through with someone? I know you have started to here already, but there are more specialist organisations around who might help you to deal with your thougths and actions better.

London Lesbian and Gay Switchboard is a really good helpline you can call (and is UK wide):
Web: www.llgs.org.uk
Tel: 020 7837 7324

You could also try:

National Bisexual Helpline
Open Tuesday and Wednesday 7.20pm - 9.30pm, and Saturday 10.30am - 12.30pm.
Tel: 020 8569 7500

Also, take a read of these articles:
Bisexual myths
The wrong label
Exploring your sexuality

Hope some of these help

New here, am I a bi-male?

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