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Rite well ive been wiv my boyf 4 ages now and i really feel ready to have sex with him.The thing is he neva asks me about it which is gud in a way cos now i know hes not usin me for sex, but its frustrating wen he doesnt make any moves on me!The only things we do r kiss n im ready 2 go furthur.
Wen we first started goin out we were had the perfect oppurtunity to have sex, but i sed no cos we hadnt been seein eachotha for long but now i want him to ask me or do somet about it he doesnt!Im kinda shy 2 ask him myself so i duno wot to do about it,wot do u think??anyone been in this situation-n wot did u do??please help!
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Wen we first started goin out we were had the perfect oppurtunity to have sex, but i sed no cos we hadnt been seein eachotha for long but now i want him to ask me or do somet about it he doesnt!Im kinda shy 2 ask him myself so i duno wot to do about it,wot do u think??anyone been in this situation-n wot did u do??please help!
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well I was sort of in a sotuation like that ... Well ... <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0">
Just like try asking him what he thinks 'bout sex ... And what age he thinks sex is ok from (how old r u both if I may ask ???)
Mayb he's one of those pepl that follow the 'no sex bfore marrige'stuff ... ?
And then just tell him frankl that u r ready 2 go further, u dont have 2 say SEX but just further, I'm sure he'll get the idea...
Plan B would b to just go for it, while kissing, just start undressing him .... (mayb Pln A sounds better ???
Well, GOOD LUCK
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I also think u should talk to him about it, instead of 'Plan B', because maybe he doesn't feel ready, and wants to wait till he is instead of rushing things.
xss
And whether he's 17 or not doesn't change the fact that he might not be ready to sleep with you yet.
Change it, or i will beat u with a stick, (the general oppion was that i should.....)
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im in favour of u getting a beating!
Go SeaShihtzu, Go SeaShihtzu Go Go Go <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
*Searches for
newbie with her axe hehe(who needs a stick when u can have an axe... <IMG alt="image" src="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/dark2.gif">
[ 30-12-2001: Message edited by: SeaShihtzu ]
[ 31-12-2001: Message edited by: Lonely Lad ]
If you had been here a long time you would know that copying someone's signature or screen name is tantamount to treason. We don't like it because it shows lack of imagination on the other person's part. So don't call ss a Shit, or anything else. If you don't like us sticking to our ways then don't comment.
the funniest thing is when you get twits trying to insult you. i can only assume that your feeble attempt to play on words failed because you're pig ignorant and unable to read properly? cos quite frankly, it wasn't very clever. or insulting, come to think of it.
i said two minutes ago, i'll say it again. you WILL get banned if you keep this up. actually...you'll get banned anyway.
I aint changin my name, mayb u shud change urs? n i neva copied it off u, ur wordings crap mine is soooooo much better <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
Thanx for all the help uve given me on this aswell <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
SS has a right to say how nobody posts because all you newbies do is post the same pointless questions in Sex. What we want is a bit more in the other forums, they do exist you know!
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i've got no problems with genuine, well wishing newbies - and, from time to time, we get those. but it's just unfortunate that the majority of newbies at complete tossers with a brain the size of a pea.
i know you dont care that i've been here the longest (or near as dammit), but in my time i've seen just about every single question about sex that could possibly be asked, be asked. all it would take it a brief peruse of some search results to find your answer. is that too much to ask, "forgot_my_old_password" << what sorta stupid fucking name is that anyway.
i have no idea why you're trying to pick a way, cos it's not us that are gonna come out worse off.
there's no need to be so mean to a new person, even if it was joking around. thesite is supposed to be WELCOMING, and useful, and fun, and generally a "nice place with nice people".
so on everyone's behalf, welcome vanilla kid <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> hope you get more intelligent replies next time you post <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
If ppl start arguments ova avin the same name then i just av 2 say that u spend too much time on ere and shud get out more.
No more to say on this subject.....
Arasti - stick to plan B
Seashihtzu - have a nice cup of tea
Bilal - have a biscuit
Groovybaby - ummmm...yep
Lonely_Lad - im sure dog biscuits are very nice
WhoWhere - your flies are undone
Turtle - the world isnt ready for anyone
i_lost_my_password_so - i hope u find it
nice way to lighten up this topic <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
sorry 2 say this (and I hope I'm not gonna b kicked out 4r it , Turtle and WW) but y r u making this into this megga prob. I think Vanilla was wrong to take the same quote as Sea... but I'm sure she got the point ...
P.S. go_away,I took Plan B myself...
luv
Arasti
[ 31-12-2001: Message edited by: Arasti ]
Some of the "regulars" are complaining that there r no people answereing, asking "intelegent questions"... Well if u shit on all the "newbies" then theres never gonna be more people there ... Think about that !
luv
Arasti
It does actually show lack of imagination (some newbie tried to contradict this fact...) because Vanilla can't think of her own signiture.
If it bothers u that much Vanilla keep my signiture, lol cos everyone already knows it's mine <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
SeaShihtzuxx
p.s. Groovaybaby is one of the coolest people on here, i really don't like people slaggin her off......
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Dom doesn't count, he very rarely graces us with his presence, non of the Mods do.
because you have a sexy face!