How can i tell him i want to....

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Rite well ive been wiv my boyf 4 ages now and i really feel ready to have sex with him.The thing is he neva asks me about it which is gud in a way cos now i know hes not usin me for sex, but its frustrating wen he doesnt make any moves on me!The only things we do r kiss n im ready 2 go furthur.
Wen we first started goin out we were had the perfect oppurtunity to have sex, but i sed no cos we hadnt been seein eachotha for long but now i want him to ask me or do somet about it he doesnt!Im kinda shy 2 ask him myself so i duno wot to do about it,wot do u think??anyone been in this situation-n wot did u do??please help!
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Hi,

well I was sort of in a sotuation like that ... Well ... <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0">

Just like try asking him what he thinks 'bout sex ... And what age he thinks sex is ok from (how old r u both if I may ask ???)

Mayb he's one of those pepl that follow the 'no sex bfore marrige'stuff ... ?

And then just tell him frankl that u r ready 2 go further, u dont have 2 say SEX but just further, I'm sure he'll get the idea...

Plan B would b to just go for it, while kissing, just start undressing him .... (mayb Pln A sounds better ???

Well, GOOD LUCK
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What Arasti said...... <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> - good advice!

I also think u should talk to him about it, instead of 'Plan B', because maybe he doesn't feel ready, and wants to wait till he is instead of rushing things.

xss

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Im 16 and hes just gone 17.... <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

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Please can u not have the same sig as me bar one word. that's just tight.
And whether he's 17 or not doesn't change the fact that he might not be ready to sleep with you yet.

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Sorry i didnt realise only one person could have that signature <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">

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Im sorry, i didn't realise you were stupid and unable 2 think for yourself. If u could, then you would have thought of one of your own.
Change it, or i will beat u with a stick, (the general oppion was that i should.....)
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YEAh you stupid biatch - get it changed, i think its so sad that uve just copied SeaShihtzu's sig - ure like one of those sad little school kids that copies sum1 elses work...but then changes words here and there!

im in favour of u getting a beating!

Go SeaShihtzu, Go SeaShihtzu Go Go Go <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

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Thankyou very much Bilal! I'm glad you agree! Who does this newbie think she is??

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Thankyou GB, <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0"> I nearly felt sorry for this newbie earlier, then i just felt stupid and laughed! Maybe she hasn't replied cos she's out not havin sex wit her bf, or she doesn't want to copy what anyone has said on this post cos it's not in her favour (lol, after all that's obviously about all she can do....copy stuff off other people i mean).
*Searches for
newbie with her axe hehe(who needs a stick when u can have an axe... <IMG alt="image" src="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/dark2.gif"&gt;

[ 30-12-2001: Message edited by: SeaShihtzu ]

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Fuck sake get a life, both of you. Wow SeaSHITzu, you thought up the quote or found it somewhere. What do you want, a dog biscuit? Daft shite. Honestly, getting so worked up over something like that, you need to find your priorities in life, seriously. Go lick the twat fungus out each other's cunts you filthy bitches!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

[ 31-12-2001: Message edited by: Lonely Lad ]

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Originally posted by Lonely Lad:
<STRONG>Fuck sake get a life, both of you. Wow SeaSHITzu, you thought up the quote or found it somewhere. What do you want, a dog biscuit? Daft shite. Honestly, getting so worked up over something like that, you need to find your priorities in life, seriously. Go lick the twat fungus out each other's cunts you filthy bitches!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

[ 31-12-2001: Message edited by: Lonely Lad ]</STRONG>

If you had been here a long time you would know that copying someone's signature or screen name is tantamount to treason. We don't like it because it shows lack of imagination on the other person's part. So don't call ss a Shit, or anything else. If you don't like us sticking to our ways then don't comment.

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Originally posted by Lonely Lad:
<STRONG>SeaSHITzu</STRONG>

the funniest thing is when you get twits trying to insult you. i can only assume that your feeble attempt to play on words failed because you're pig ignorant and unable to read properly? cos quite frankly, it wasn't very clever. or insulting, come to think of it.

i said two minutes ago, i'll say it again. you WILL get banned if you keep this up. actually...you'll get banned anyway.

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Yeh well said lonely lad, ooooh just cos uve been here for 5 years or have like 20 stars next to ur name!!! who gives a flying f*** THis Sea-shit person seems quite good at leaving crap posts, previous ones including why no-one ever posts anymore. Probably due to the fact, that whenever someone tries to post somit new they gte heckle down and told to do a F****** 'search for it'. So there comes a time no-more questions can be asked, and then ull find a gap in ur insular and insecure lifes!!! Get Real!!!!

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Ohhhhhhh im glad by usin the same signature that ive wound u up soooooo much <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
I aint changin my name, mayb u shud change urs? n i neva copied it off u, ur wordings crap mine is soooooo much better <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
Thanx for all the help uve given me on this aswell <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

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GRRRRR <IMG alt="image" src="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/hanged.gif"&gt;

SS has a right to say how nobody posts because all you newbies do is post the same pointless questions in Sex. What we want is a bit more in the other forums, they do exist you know!
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the only people you're winding up at the mods. i can sit here and argue until you get boring (so not very long then), but if you're stirring things up on purpose, then you WILL get banned, simple as that.

i've got no problems with genuine, well wishing newbies - and, from time to time, we get those. but it's just unfortunate that the majority of newbies at complete tossers with a brain the size of a pea.

i know you dont care that i've been here the longest (or near as dammit), but in my time i've seen just about every single question about sex that could possibly be asked, be asked. all it would take it a brief peruse of some search results to find your answer. is that too much to ask, "forgot_my_old_password" << what sorta stupid fucking name is that anyway.

i have no idea why you're trying to pick a way, cos it's not us that are gonna come out worse off.

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vanilla (who happens to sound normal and nice but you have hardly given her a chance) posted a question, and happened to have the same sig as SS (which, btw, is a pretty old quote and the whole imagination thing is a little irrlevant).

there's no need to be so mean to a new person, even if it was joking around. thesite is supposed to be WELCOMING, and useful, and fun, and generally a "nice place with nice people".

so on everyone's behalf, welcome vanilla kid <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> hope you get more intelligent replies next time you post <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

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Thanx Stellar.I probs wnt botha postin anything again now cos ppl wiv no lives just wana start an argument ova it.
If ppl start arguments ova avin the same name then i just av 2 say that u spend too much time on ere and shud get out more.
No more to say on this subject.....

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Vanilla11 - for godssakes go have sex
Arasti - stick to plan B
Seashihtzu - have a nice cup of tea
Bilal - have a biscuit
Groovybaby - ummmm...yep
Lonely_Lad - im sure dog biscuits are very nice
WhoWhere - your flies are undone
Turtle - the world isnt ready for anyone
i_lost_my_password_so - i hope u find it

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*LOL* @ go away!

nice way to lighten up this topic <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

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Hi people,

sorry 2 say this (and I hope I'm not gonna b kicked out 4r it , Turtle and WW) but y r u making this into this megga prob. I think Vanilla was wrong to take the same quote as Sea... but I'm sure she got the point ...

P.S. go_away,I took Plan B myself...

luv

Arasti

[ 31-12-2001: Message edited by: Arasti ]

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Well I sure did'nt steal any1s quote ! And like I said, Vanilla IS wrong, but I think she got the point.

Some of the "regulars" are complaining that there r no people answereing, asking "intelegent questions"... Well if u shit on all the "newbies" then theres never gonna be more people there ... Think about that !

luv
Arasti

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lol, Nice post go_away, good to see you mangaged to relieve the tension in a rather heated post

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although i forgot to add i dunno what you, *Groovaybaby* , are doign slagging off people. go take a look at ur member status- yep nothing more than a crappy NEWBIE like us.

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She's also been here since last february, nearly a year. We don't do oldie/newbie by posts all the time. We do it by time served. Which would make Turtle the oldest person on Earth.

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*feels kinda patronised*All i wanted is my signiture back(note use of the word my).
It does actually show lack of imagination (some newbie tried to contradict this fact...) because Vanilla can't think of her own signiture.
If it bothers u that much Vanilla keep my signiture, lol cos everyone already knows it's mine <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
SeaShihtzuxx
p.s. Groovaybaby is one of the coolest people on here, i really don't like people slaggin her off......
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Originally posted by *Groovaybaby*:
<STRONG>Thanks for what you said SS, and WhoWhere is correct, but Turtle aint the oldest Dom the mod is!!!</STRONG>

Dom doesn't count, he very rarely graces us with his presence, non of the Mods do.

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Anyway.... i thought Turtle was a mean person <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">?! So how come he's been nice to me on this thread? hehe

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Originally posted by SeaShihtzu:
<STRONG>Anyway.... i thought Turtle was a mean person <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">?! So how come he's been nice to me on this thread? hehe</STRONG>

because you have a sexy face!

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Lol, just my face then...... <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">