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How long before have sex?
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How old were most when they first had sex?
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How long after dating do u have sex?
personally
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How long after dating do u have sex?
personally
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WOW you beat J9 to it Karla <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
Watch out ppl! :rolleys:
I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.
PING, here I am lol
Turtle, you know how a question like that, straight in, makes us feel :P~~~~ ( <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">)
Anyway, hi Virgin, I've seen your intro, welcome & I'm sure we'll all answer your question soon, it's just a little unnerving <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
j9
ps, don't be suprised if I change my name soon, I've got a bit of a reputation haven't I. oops
Guess I'd better answer it then..
Surprisingly 15 when I first had full sex, tho I had had oral n other stuff b4.
How long I'd wait to have sex in a relationship?? well I would say I'd have sex wiv a girl I was going out with 2 seconds after agreeing to go out.
So will look at how long I'd b prepared to wait 4 sex, depends what sorta girl n what age they r, the type of Girl that could actually get me to go out with them(I'm 18 n extremely unattachable) I'd probably wait 1-2 months max b 4 starting to get a bit pissed with her, mayb only a month thinking bout it.
anyway theres a bit of background for you back to the topic. i was 15 when i first had full sex and generally find that its better to get to know someone so that you feel comfortable with them before you have sex. theres no set length of time for this, it varies from person to person. the one best piece of advice i can give is don't have sex unless you feel ready either for your first time ever or your first time with that person.
welcome to the mad house!
luv angel
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
Stop drooling damn you!!! Bloody 40y.o baby!!!!
I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.
Been eating worms again J9 <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
*miffy eyed*
Naw, Karla's trying to protect us! I didn't know our anti-newbie tendancies were so obvious <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> Ooops!
Welcome to TheSite Virgin <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
*|* Chica *|*
Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
Geez looks who pops up all of a sudden!!
Where ui been?? how u doin??
yeah n u forgot Elisa <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">... not allowed to do that
It's better to regret things you've done than things you haven't.
It's a raspberry d'oh :P~~~~~
j9
I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.
Looks more like worms to me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
I was 16 yrs, 2 weeks & 5 days (don't know how many hours or minutes) I still have the b4 & after bus tickets to my boyfriend's house lol, but as you know, I am a terminal horder. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
I'd been going out with the guy for nine months & he was my 1st true love. (I often wonder where he is now). I wrote about the experience in my diary, my father nicked my diary & all hell let loose, his main gripe was that I'd done it on good Friday lol. He stopped me from going out with him & my life fell apart, it took me literally years to get over him. His name was Mick Beagle (OK Spirit & Mark), so if you're out there Mick............
After that, the time between meeting someone & sleeping with them varied wildly from a few days to a few weeks to never.
j9
[This message has been edited by j9j9 (edited 04-01-2001).]
Was his brother around with his hidden camera <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
There isn't a set time when you have sex and you shouldn't do it cause someone on here has said they have already done it. You do it when you AND your partner are ready. I'm almost 18 and I haven't yet but I'm not bothered cause I haven't met the right person. You have sex when you feel comfortable with your partner.
Or you have sex after a few drinks and you regret it the next morning.
Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
As for myself I was 16, we'd been together for 6 months and I totally don't regret it. I still talk to him from time to time which is kinda cool. And like J9 said after that it totally varied
I think you are thinking of Jeremy Beadle Mark, never mind <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif">
you were just trying to get me to change the topic & get into trouble weren't you :P
j9
Well im not gonna say how young i was when i lost ym virginty lets just say i was very young!!!
But it was with my first love and he was called 'mark', we were together about 2 months when we did it and then we was doing it anytime we could for the next 6 months so i got loadsa practice!
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Ooops got ya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> sorry
Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
Oh, I'm back now! Yup, just the usual distracting crap going on at home <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"> but...
*sings* "I WILL SURVIIIIIIIVE!"
Wow, you're a Uber poster now! I'm gonna have to come here more often and get a few more posts to my name... I bet you 10 quid I'll 300 by the end of the month!
*|* Chica *|*
Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
Making love is apersonal kinda thing, its when you are both ready, and is differnet in different relationships.
I went out with a young lady for 6 months and then made love, but my last girlfriend we made love after just a week!!!
Its when your ready thats the main thing.
NuttyLad <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Are you saying that you're last girlfriend wasn't a lady NuttyLad (lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">)
j9
MTS ^5
im not sure if id class what happened to me as my "first". but im guessing you could say so.
i was fourteen.
and i know this is a weird question, but do you think if you were raped you lose your virginity? im really sorry for bringing this into things.
i dont love you baby..but im pretty when i lie
I've never had sex with someone before I knew thier first name, and in general I like to know the person before I have sex. Unless I'm bored. like with ??? who fucked my face one afternoon at greenbelt. I knew his mother enough to have a polite chat whilst washing the cups at church, so I guess that counts.
(In the physical sense yes, but in most ways that matter no)
[This message has been edited by Carriage Return (edited 07-01-2001).]
It's better to regret things you've done than things you haven't.