How long before have sex?

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How old were most when they first had sex?
and
How long after dating do u have sex?
personally

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Please introduce yourself to the other users first - before you ask people such personal questions!

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Originally posted by Karla:
Please introduce yourself to the other users first - before you ask people such personal questions!

WOW you beat J9 to it Karla <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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But just for the hell of it, we're all gonna have to be suspicious of Virgin because she used the site for what it was made for.

Watch out ppl! :rolleys:

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Originally posted by Turtle:
But just for the hell of it, we're all gonna have to be suspicious of Virgin because she used the site for what it was made for.

Watch out ppl! :rolleys:

PING, here I am lol

Turtle, you know how a question like that, straight in, makes us feel :P~~~~ ( <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">)

Anyway, hi Virgin, I've seen your intro, welcome & I'm sure we'll all answer your question soon, it's just a little unnerving <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

j9

ps, don't be suprised if I change my name soon, I've got a bit of a reputation haven't I. oops

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Geez ppl, it aint that serious a question is it?? not that perverted, looks like a perfectly reasonable question n + its my job to b rude to ppl <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">..

Guess I'd better answer it then..

Surprisingly 15 when I first had full sex, tho I had had oral n other stuff b4.

How long I'd wait to have sex in a relationship?? well I would say I'd have sex wiv a girl I was going out with 2 seconds after agreeing to go out.

So will look at how long I'd b prepared to wait 4 sex, depends what sorta girl n what age they r, the type of Girl that could actually get me to go out with them(I'm 18 n extremely unattachable) I'd probably wait 1-2 months max b 4 starting to get a bit pissed with her, mayb only a month thinking bout it.

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first of all hi virgin and welcome to thesite. i'll introduce myself. i'm know here as whizzygirl or just whizzy and post most days to lots of problems. i'm 18 and a student of english lit. there are lots of people to look out for on these boards: J9J9, daze, dirty_harry, gwai, spirit, broken heart, turtle. they are our most prominent members here on thesite and there are loads of others too.
anyway theres a bit of background for you back to the topic. i was 15 when i first had full sex and generally find that its better to get to know someone so that you feel comfortable with them before you have sex. theres no set length of time for this, it varies from person to person. the one best piece of advice i can give is don't have sex unless you feel ready either for your first time ever or your first time with that person.
welcome to the mad house!
luv angel

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Originally posted by j9j9:

:P~~~~ ( <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">)

Stop drooling damn you!!! Bloody 40y.o baby!!!!

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Originally posted by j9j9:
:P~~~~

Been eating worms again J9 <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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*miffy eyed*

Naw, Karla's trying to protect us! I didn't know our anti-newbie tendancies were so obvious <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; Ooops!

Welcome to TheSite Virgin <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

*|* Chica *|*

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Originally posted by Chica:

*miffy eyed*

Naw, Karla's trying to protect us! I didn't know our anti-newbie tendancies were so obvious <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; Ooops!

Welcome to TheSite Virgin <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

*|* Chica *|*

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Geez looks who pops up all of a sudden!!

Where ui been?? how u doin??

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Originally posted by whizzygirl:
there are lots of people to look out for on these boards: J9J9, daze, dirty_harry, gwai, spirit, broken heart, turtle. they are our most prominent members here on thesite and there are loads of others too.

yeah n u forgot Elisa <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">... not allowed to do that

Girl-From-Mars

i was 17 when i had sex for the first time as it was my first relationship and hadnt had much of a chance before! i did most stuff though, like oral etc after 3 months ish of being together i guess.. we talked about having sex from about then, seriously at about 4 or 5 months coz it was first time for both of us, but we had some technical difficulties <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt; and it hurt like hell!!! so it took a few tries... so i went on the pill as well, and so it was almost 11 months before we actually had sex. which is quite a while! i was prepared to at about 5 or 6 months though, maybe before. i spose once its not the first time its not so bad!

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Originally posted by Broken Heart:
Been eating worms again J9 <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

It's a raspberry d'oh :P~~~~~

j9

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That's what you always say j9!!

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Originally posted by j9j9:
It's a raspberry d'oh :P~~~~~

j9

Looks more like worms to me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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We'd better get back on topic before we get a reputation guys <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

I was 16 yrs, 2 weeks & 5 days (don't know how many hours or minutes) I still have the b4 & after bus tickets to my boyfriend's house lol, but as you know, I am a terminal horder. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

I'd been going out with the guy for nine months & he was my 1st true love. (I often wonder where he is now). I wrote about the experience in my diary, my father nicked my diary & all hell let loose, his main gripe was that I'd done it on good Friday lol. He stopped me from going out with him & my life fell apart, it took me literally years to get over him. His name was Mick Beagle (OK Spirit & Mark), so if you're out there Mick............

After that, the time between meeting someone & sleeping with them varied wildly from a few days to a few weeks to never.

j9

[This message has been edited by j9j9 (edited 04-01-2001).]

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Originally posted by j9j9:
His name was Mick Beagle

Was his brother around with his hidden camera <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

There isn't a set time when you have sex and you shouldn't do it cause someone on here has said they have already done it. You do it when you AND your partner are ready. I'm almost 18 and I haven't yet but I'm not bothered cause I haven't met the right person. You have sex when you feel comfortable with your partner.

Or you have sex after a few drinks and you regret it the next morning.

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Yep I agree, it totally depends
As for myself I was 16, we'd been together for 6 months and I totally don't regret it. I still talk to him from time to time which is kinda cool. And like J9 said after that it totally varied

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Originally posted by Broken Heart:
Was his brother around with his hidden camera <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

I think you are thinking of Jeremy Beadle Mark, never mind <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;

you were just trying to get me to change the topic & get into trouble weren't you :P

j9

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MArk you mad head!!!

Well im not gonna say how young i was when i lost ym virginty lets just say i was very young!!!

But it was with my first love and he was called 'mark', we were together about 2 months when we did it and then we was doing it anytime we could for the next 6 months so i got loadsa practice!

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Originally posted by j9j9:
I think you are thinking of Jeremy Beadle Mark, never mind <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;

Ooops got ya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; sorry

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Originally posted by Daze:
Geez looks who pops up all of a sudden!!

Where ui been?? how u doin??

Oh, I'm back now! Yup, just the usual distracting crap going on at home <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt; but...

*sings* "I WILL SURVIIIIIIIVE!"

Wow, you're a Uber poster now! I'm gonna have to come here more often and get a few more posts to my name... I bet you 10 quid I'll 300 by the end of the month!

*|* Chica *|*

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Hi

Making love is apersonal kinda thing, its when you are both ready, and is differnet in different relationships.

I went out with a young lady for 6 months and then made love, but my last girlfriend we made love after just a week!!!

Its when your ready thats the main thing.

NuttyLad <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Originally posted by NuttyLad:

I went out with a young lady for 6 months and then made love, but my last girlfriend we made love after just a week!!!

Its when your ready thats the main thing.

NuttyLad <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

Are you saying that you're last girlfriend wasn't a lady NuttyLad (lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">)

j9

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I lost my virginity only a couple of months ago...I'm 16 now. The guy I slept with was just someone who I really really fancied at the time (but he was a wanker) but I'd always said that I was gonna wait until I was in a relationship with someone who i really liked. I think that if a lad dumps a girl because she hasnt slept with him yet the lad is horrible!!! Sex isnt everything in a relationship is it? I went out with my ex for 9 months and I didn't sleep with him. We did other stuff like oral, basically everything apart form sleeping with each other. But I loved him and to me it didn't matter whether we slept together or not even though I wanted to...it just didnt happen. He was a virgin too and I think hew as too shy. But anyway...just saying what I feel.

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um.. i think i trust everyones on here, coz you all seem pretty cool <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; (u can pay me later <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">).
im not sure if id class what happened to me as my "first". but im guessing you could say so.
i was fourteen.
and i know this is a weird question, but do you think if you were raped you lose your virginity? im really sorry for bringing this into things.

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depending how you want to class as having sex, 9, 11, 21, 23 or not yet.

I've never had sex with someone before I knew thier first name, and in general I like to know the person before I have sex. Unless I'm bored. like with ??? who fucked my face one afternoon at greenbelt. I knew his mother enough to have a polite chat whilst washing the cups at church, so I guess that counts.

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Originally posted by IcKleMoNSteR:
and i know this is a weird question, but do you think if you were raped you lose your virginity?

In general I would say no.
(In the physical sense yes, but in most ways that matter no)

[This message has been edited by Carriage Return (edited 07-01-2001).]

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Well i'm 16 & still a virgin but i felt ready 2 have sex wit my last bf who i have just broken up wit, we were 2gether for 5 months but i felt ready after 4 months. We never did sleep 2gether though i dunno why! he is a virgin as well & i was the 1st person he got off wit let alone did ne thing else wit so he woz a bit in-experienced even though he is nearly 17.

Girl-From-Mars

i suppose if you are raped you technically lose your virginity, as you have had sex. but i would prefer to count the loss of my virginity as the first time i had sex in a relationship with someone i loved or cared about, if i was in this situation.

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