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Painful masturbation
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Whenever my boyfriend fingers me he can never seem to find the right place to get in, so ends up too far down and in completely the wrong place and sometimes it really hurts!! I tell him to stop and then we try again, but he has never found where to go and we have been seeing each other 5 months now!!! I dont know whether I should try showing him where to go because even though I tell him to move his hand up etc, he still doesnt manage it!! He's 19 but a little inexperienced in all this, so I dont want to make him feel embarrassed about it and also I dont want to embarass myself! Has any1 got any suggestions as to how I can get him to get his hand in the right place?? Any tips at all on mutual masturbation would also be a help! THANKS!
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Never tell him that he's doing it wrong, just tell & show him how to do it right.
He will thank you for it & you'll have a better time <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
j9
Ditto.
Viti kuin muuri.
When I have been with a guy and not liked what they have been doing I have just moved their hand gently to where I like it.
Im a bit like a driving insrtuctor sometimes though with people i've been with for a while.
Left, Right, Up, Down, Faster, Slow down and then comes the emergency stop!
<IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
I expect if you continue to post like this, flimmyjoyd, you will be banned shortly <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
j9
[This message has been edited by j9j9 (edited 17-12-2000).]
Now crawl back to your u-bend, cockroach
Grow old but never grow up.
anyway back to the topic, i just wanna echo advice thats already been given. definitely go for gentle encouragement rather than criticism. but if you don't guide him with what to do then chances are you'll never enjoy it.