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Why don't you just text him saying "hi, just wondered if you were out this weekend and wanted to meet up somewhere?". As long as you keep it casual then i can't see how it will hurt anybody.
And stargalaxy - tommo is maybe being a little harsh on their judgement but i must admit that the basics of their point is ringing true
Responding with a good come back is better than running to the mods IMO
Yes i do want to see an encore.
Im waiting.
The reason i was banned for insulting you is because you got on your high horse about drug taking to such an extent one girl nearly killed herself.
something needed to be said.
You're ridiculously PC comments almost cost someone her life.
Whats the betting he runs to the mods!!!
silly little boy
:yes: YES! That's why all this phone number etiquette stuff is so rubbish! Why is the impetus always on the guy to ring? If the girl has his number too the ball is just as much in her court.
Maybe he was busy, maybe *he* was hung up on phone number etiquette too, maybe he always goes to the pub with the guys that night, maybe anything....as Carolina said there are any number of explanations for a guy not calling straight away. By not ringing him yourself you'll never know. Sure, it could have been just a one night stand for him, but you can't just assume that. You could find out he wants to draw a line under it, but equally by not calling you could be missing out on something really good...
When I met my boyfriend it was in very drunken circumstances, he came back to mine for a fumble that night and we swapped numbers the following morning...by all probabilities, it should have been just a very brief affair, a few dates and some good memories (or even just that one night), but I phoned him up the next day and we arranged a date for the day after. It turned out that despite the random way we met we had so much in common and we're still together 4 years on. You never know until you try...:)
:rolleyes: Now who's the silly boy... now we know you've been banned before, it's bye-bye :wave:
if you dont ring him you will regret it.
if you do ring him, even if he says that he isnt interested what have you lost? atleats you will know where you stand.
*edited because i hadnt read to the end of the thread *