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First time...guys and girls
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for the girls: hey! yes i know it will most likely hurt but how much really?? my friend said the pain was unbearable and she cried when another said she didnt feel anything. they both bled though. is the pain bearable??? could you maybe compare it to something? or 1-10 pain factor (even though its different for people). im scared of how it would be for me because im having problems with using even a tampon!
for the guys: is it true that evn though the girl is a virgin you will still have your orgasm.....since she is also tight and all it might be extra good..???haha :cool:
for the guys: is it true that evn though the girl is a virgin you will still have your orgasm.....since she is also tight and all it might be extra good..???haha :cool:
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um yeah, My first time wasn't bad. As many people will say to you as long as you are ready and have had plenty of foreplay. So mine hurt a little bit but with breathing and slow motion at first things jumped into a wonderful feeling quite quickly. As for a scale to on one to ten I'd say 5 can be nice and painful just depends on how you manage the task at first.
Goodluck :wave:
SexyCandi04
Depends on the person regarding extent of the pain.
ETA: also, you will find that once you've had sex, tampons will be a doddle, 'cause of your now broken hymen :yes:
More like a pain of pressure.
Just take it slow, should be fine!
So bascially, do like everyone said and make sure your turned on enough, it'd probably help to use lubricant (but remember to use water-based (?) lube if your using a latex condom), and try to relax. (deep breathing helps)
it seems to vary a lot from person to person, hopefully you'll be a lucky one!
by the way, my other few times after that it still hurt, but not as much.
how did it hurt you??
you? you're only a wee boy!
Don't worry about it, cause that only makes it worse, and even if it does hurt then it won't be for long. Good luck
But I was so pissed, and alcohol numbs pain so maybe it did hurt and I couldn't feel it?
I don't know,but it was good :thumb:
Dont forget the condoms! :thumb:
Am I ready for sex?
I think it all depends on what you have been doing beforehand, not to sound crude but if you are used to your boyfriend fingering you quite a bit and are turned on enough when it actually happens i would imagine it would hurt a lot less than if you wasn't used to any kind of stimulation down there, and weren't as well lubricated.
The second time I had half a bottle of wine and actually said 'did we manage it' felt absolutely nothing!
Phoenix