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Shy
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Hi,
I am very shy, going all red, quiet and fuck up...
And i want to overcome this
How could i get rid of my shyness?
I am very shy, going all red, quiet and fuck up...
And i want to overcome this
How could i get rid of my shyness?
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Faking confidence works apparently? ;s
I'm sorry there, StarGalaxy, but you aren't going to become a moderator
they are seriously nice people ...both very good freinds of years.
they have lived quiet reasonable lives ...and always have and will.
they have good senses of humour.
to have someone like me close to them may seem odd but ...my loudness and mad lifestyle history ...my brimming confidence in myself ...is something they call on for laughter ...advice and safety ...
and in return i get common sense and peace and ...safety.
changing isn't all it's cracked up to be sometimes ...especialy when changing your natural and beautiful self. in fact trying to be something and someone you aren't ...could well be damaging i would imagine.
your shyness might just be one of your greatest qualities ...and your thinking of chucking it in the skip!
learn to like yourself ...then even love yourself ...then ...you won't want to be anything but shy ...