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Can someone help me???
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Hi, im a 14 year old boy looking for help on asking people out, can anyone help?? I would be very grateful
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Well we went to kiss and we made eye contact, then did it, and when we pulled away we couldnt help staring at each other... I thought, well maybe she didnt enjoy it, that could have ruined my chances. To my delight she still talked to me.
Is there any advice you could give me to make her notice me or help me get over my shyness of asking her out??
PLEASE HELP!
Are you English? Are you 14?
trust me, you don't want to know
yea looks like she's got the hots for you, i went through that pubescent stage of nervousness myself, just be calm, be yourself, ask her to do something you'se both have an interest in, it might work out you never know.
In that case, I'd go with your instincts. You've already kissed her, you can't be going that far wrong.
What is what?
The fact that she is still talking you means she probably likes you a whole lot, so yeah, you should ask her if she fancies going to the cinema one night or hanging out or whatever you do Just normal stuff...no candles and music and moonlight needed. Dont be shy...just go for it...my crystal ball says she will be up for going out with you :)
Good luck!!
EDT: bloody hell, threads move so quickly...i was agreeing with this :
I shouldn't worry about that, it was a joke. A funny. A bit of witty repartie.
ETA: well you are a child so what do you do
Well me and my mates are going to the cinema soon with some girls they know, should i invite her??? That way she will be able to be with me and also mingle with other girls
go for it.
Go for it, sonny.
Aww, thats super sweet and really thoughtful! Let us know how it goes :thumb:
Jus' jokin
But nah... Invite her to the cinema as the other guys said... go see a romantic comedy or somethin uhm... maybe walk her home. You don't have to kiss her goodnight, us women aren't so stupid as to not recognise when a guy likes us.
Maybe some talking too and listening. Women love it when men listen to what we have to say.
Good luck mate.
oh yeah and im sittin next to her in spanish :rolleyes:
P.S thanks, you've all really helped