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worried about sex with new partner
I've been going out with this girl for about a week now, and it's going well. But I'm nervous about when we get round to having sex, for two main reasons. One, I'm very inexperienced sexually. Two, I'm very self-conscious about my body (v. hairy back and shoulders, you see...) and worried what she might think, or that she'll get turned off. What do you reckon I should do? I don't want to put her off with my complete lack of confidence. Should I talk to her about it, warn her? And how/when to bring it up? Thanks for your suggestions!