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Is it me or are more girls of 16 up to 20something bisexual? I know alot of girls who would sleep with other girls but not have a any kind of relationship like they would with a fella. Is this a cool fad or is it that more females are more open to exploring their sexuality more these days? Also, how about guy's.. are they more open to bi releationships?
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people i know sorta agree with you thats its becoming a fad
However, i do believe that i recall watching a discovery program that all females share the chemicals that reside in lesbianism/bisexuality. If i were female i would be gay because girls are lovely things compared to the vulgarity of the male.
:rolleyes:
men, even from ages gone by where we lived in caves, compete against each other for dominance and strength, and do not like to appear different (and henceforth viewed as weak by others)
I think perhaps it's a way out for confused people?
I wouldn't have a relationship with a guy, only a physical one. I'd still have a proper relationship (physical and otherwise) with a woman though.
It's hard though, people assume that I'm just plain gay, even though they know I'm bi. I get looked down and patronised a hell of a lot by people, as if I don't know what I'm doing or I'm just going through a phase.
I know what i am, and I don't need anybody to tell me it.
I just do my best. I'd lie if I felt I was totally accepted, and it does really upset me at times.
Now i know there are some girls who are actually bisexuals without it being a fad. I mean i know some who've been in relationships with girls and who are genually bisexual, it seems to be alot of girls do it to seem cool, imo they're stupid morons
Everygirl i have dated with the exception of my current and only worthy partner has been properly bi sexual and it made no difference or whatever.
A lot of people get bisexuality confused with simply being able to see qualities in the same sex.
Malt xxx
I was like..."Dude, she's snogging someone else...dipshit!!"
Malt xx
I can understand being annoyed if your girlfriend kisses another girl, as, technically, it would be cheating. But if it happened to me I wouldn't really mind, because it doesn't feel like a threat, even if she is bi. Doesn't make a lot of sense I know.
For guys though, christ, ive been threatend with violence purely cuz of my sexual choices...so i dont think its becoming any more acceptable for guys. I mean, its kinda obvious that there are more guys that enjoy seeing two girls have a game of tonsil hockey than there are girls who like to see a pair of blokes up to the same thing.....
As for the "bi partners snogging the same sex"...well....its a tricky one in my opinion. Me and my gf have done it and do do it when we're out for the night with friends and on the old merry wagon...in the end, as long as your both cool with it then its doing no harm. For us, i think its part gettin kicks from it for each other (though curiously it doesnt turn me on if it aint my gf ) and the other part of it is just the fact that we're very sexual people....neither of us wud ever take it any further but it seems to help us blow of a bit of that steam that might make you wander off track. Plus the people involved are normally friends anyway so its not really a threat......so wheres the harm if we're both enjoying it......
Peace
BUT I do believe the majority of girls are just alot more open minded these days to think about having a sexual relationship with the same sex as it isn't frowned upon as much as it use to be many years ago.
Say 10 years ago, I bet there was just as many teenage girls that were curious about being with the same sex. But they just had no choice but to deny those thoughts as bi-sexuals were not as well accepted then as they are now.
With it being mainly girls in their teens and twenties experimenting more, its the way ideals have changed, we can aim to have anything and everything that we want, and if that includes other girls then so be it.
I wonder how many so called bisexual girls would snog another girl if there was noone watching or they couldnt tell anyone how outrageous they are?
Personally, I don't understand why it's acceptable to kiss someone of the same sex whilst in a relationship. Each to their own I guess, but when I'm in a relationship I would never dream of kissing anyone else, man or woman.
Definitely, I mean I find many girls really attractive and I can see the sexual attractiveness too, but it doesn't mean I want to actually have sex with them.
There seem to be a lot of people around who want to "have their cake and eat it" with regards to the whole kissing/having sex with others whilst in a relationship.
Personally I think most people are probably a mixture of all three, depending on age.
a) It makes me appear to people that don't know me well enough, that I'm just like that myself, which is really annoying because I'm not. I'm not who I am just to get attention etc.
b) It makes it really hard to find a girl that is actually looking for something more than just a bit of fun to impress some guys!
:banghead: :crying:
To take it beyond a 5 minute laugh is wrong, as is doing it primarily for strangers to see.
Its nice to see, not that I am into the lesbian porn, find it boring to be honest. I don't think its accpetable thgough if a girl is going out with a guy as his gf then kisses or doe smore with a girl and saying coz its a girl its ok. Its still cheating. I'm sure she wouldnt be pleased if he got off with a girl or a guy.
It is an interesting state of affairs.