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Ok, say you go out with a few friends and a few gals you don't know. If you get to like one of them, what the hell do you do?
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what the fook are you on about.
- him going out a few mates, plus a few girls he doesn't know.
- he fancies one of them.
- wants to pull her
- how does he go about doing this
You say "would you like a cup of coffee sometime .."
Apparently mirroring their body language works quite well
Oh, and a mental reminder for me: do not post when pissed.
*imagines nmrmak acting like a complete girl*
Obviously only mirror them to a certain extent :P
So, I'd like to try a different approach. It's very awkward to have a friend you fancy, and who knows that you fancy her, but you can't be together, because "it would ruin "what you have"".
And you end up with nothing. Nah, i think i got the point of mirroring
Nah really? Depends on the woman... always smile, keep enough eye contact not to make you look shy... yet not to make you look too... wierd.
Ask her about herself, direct your knees towards her and gesture your arms to make your body more open.
Take some MDMA with her.
Result guaranteed .
But not very good if you want a more serious relationship, right?
Well I was joking, but there's a hint of truth...
MDMA brings down barriers between people when you're high, it's usually carried over afterwards as well.
Get drunk, alcohol loosens people up.
Sounds suspiciously like date rape
and are single...?