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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
Ok, say you go out with a few friends and a few gals you don't know. If you get to like one of them, what the hell do you do?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Pulling
    Originally posted by nmrmak
    Ok, say you go out with a few friends and a few gals you don't know. If you get to like one of them, what the hell do you do?

    :lol: what the fook are you on about.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think it's:

    - him going out a few mates, plus a few girls he doesn't know.

    - he fancies one of them.

    - wants to pull her

    - how does he go about doing this
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Pulling
    Originally posted by nmrmak
    Ok, say you go out with a few friends and a few gals you don't know. If you get to like one of them, what the hell do you do?


    You say "would you like a cup of coffee sometime .."
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just be yourself - easier said than done I know!

    Apparently mirroring their body language works quite well
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think it's:

    - him going out a few mates, plus a few girls he doesn't know.

    - he fancies one of them.

    - wants to pull her

    - how does he go about doing this
    Kind of....


    Oh, and a mental reminder for me: do not post when pissed.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Rainbow Phoenix
    Just be yourself - easier said than done I know!

    Apparently mirroring their body language works quite well

    *imagines nmrmak acting like a complete girl* :lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LOL

    Obviously only mirror them to a certain extent :P

    :D:lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I often hear couples that are together for a long time say that their partner is their best friend. I think what it would be best to do is to get to know any woman you fancy first before taking things further. Why jump in at the deep end?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I often hear couples that are together for a long time say that their partner is their best friend. I think what it would be best to do is to get to know any woman you fancy first before taking things further. Why jump in at the deep end?
    Because i've tried the other way around, and it was like: "Aww, it's really sweet you fancy me/had the courage to say it, and i appreciate it. I like you a lot, and you are a very good friend of mine. Let's not ruin the friendly relationship we have".

    So, I'd like to try a different approach. It's very awkward to have a friend you fancy, and who knows that you fancy her, but you can't be together, because "it would ruin "what you have"".
    And you end up with nothing.
    *imagines nmrmak acting like a complete girl*
    :lol: Nah, i think i got the point of mirroring :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by nmrmak
    Because i've tried the other way around, and it was like: "Aww, it's really sweet you fancy me/had the courage to say it, and i appreciate it. I like you a lot, and you are a very good friend of mine. Let's not ruin the friendly relationship we have".
    Fair enough. Try an alternative route. I'm just saying I have a preference.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Everyone has their own style... Me I jump in & face rape them, whip their clothes off and grind on their face in the dancefloor...

    Nah really? Depends on the woman... always smile, keep enough eye contact not to make you look shy... yet not to make you look too... wierd.

    Ask her about herself, direct your knees towards her and gesture your arms to make your body more open.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    Fair enough. Try an alternative route. I'm just saying I have a preference.
    To be honest, I share your preference. For me, it's impossible to like someone before getting to know their personalities. All I'm saying is that the next time I get to fancy a girl even the tiniest bit, I'll go against my standards, and jump on her. So that way, I'll have a basis to work on. Maybe I even like her personality later, if I give her a try, right?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by nmrmak
    To be honest, I share your preference. For me, it's impossible to like someone before getting to know their personalities. All I'm saying is that the next time I get to fancy a girl even the tiniest bit, I'll go against my standards, and jump on her. So that way, I'll have a basis to work on. Maybe I even like her personality later, if I give her a try, right?

    Take some MDMA with her.

    Result guaranteed ;) .
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Probably the easiest way around...

    But not very good if you want a more serious relationship, right? :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by nmrmak
    Probably the easiest way around...

    But not very good if you want a more serious relationship, right? :)

    Well I was joking, but there's a hint of truth...

    MDMA brings down barriers between people when you're high, it's usually carried over afterwards as well.

    Get drunk, alcohol loosens people up.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Buy some warpmints from firebox.com, take a load and let people drink them down with alcohol. Results.are.super. !
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Xila
    Buy some warpmints from firebox.com, take a load and let people drink them down with alcohol. Results.are.super. !

    Sounds suspiciously like date rape
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    Fair enough. Try an alternative route. I'm just saying I have a preference.

    and are single...?
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