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Totally confused
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Any advice would be most appreciated:
I've been with my girlfriend now for around 2 years but can't help myself when I'm out when it comes to meeting other women and dating them at the same time. i can't find a single fault with my current girlfriend and I'm totally confused as to whether i want to be with her or to live the single life.
Is this just a phase and i will settle down given time or am i likely to do this with whoever i am with as it's in my nature?
I've been with my girlfriend now for around 2 years but can't help myself when I'm out when it comes to meeting other women and dating them at the same time. i can't find a single fault with my current girlfriend and I'm totally confused as to whether i want to be with her or to live the single life.
Is this just a phase and i will settle down given time or am i likely to do this with whoever i am with as it's in my nature?
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Only you can really answer that. Some people change, some don't. If you have to ask yourself the question, maybe you have to look deeper into your relationship and the relationship you have with yourself.
Hope this helps.
It depends if your 18 keep it up dont worry about it, youl change and your girlfriend will quickly get over it,my 17 yr old cousion was on the phone to me sobbing cause she got dumped next weekend she was happy with someone else,
If you 30 then sort it out stay with the one youve got stop trying to pull others
id talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel. its true though ppl change but i dont think she deserves to be treated badly ???
I dont believe anybody "cant help themself".
Theres nothing wrong with seeing other people but not if your girlfriend is under the impression that shes special to you, and that youre seeing her exclusively. Youre basically deceiving her, and im sure she doesnt deserve that.