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Rubber pants? :eek2:
Only sometimes? :eek2:
Uhuh... :yes:
OK, fair enough. Sorry, my mind's not very pure today.
lol, i'm confused, sometimes as i don't have a boyfriend to be sleeping naked with right now :no:
A boyfriend? Do you mean to say you have more than one? :eek2:
Lol umm nope, i'm saying i haven't got a boyfriend let alone more than one, which means i won't be sleeping naked with anyone right now
If i was naked in a bed with a girl, sleeping would be the last thing on my mind
That is exactly what I thought!
Well i suppose technically, i wouldn't be 'sleeping' true true
Baby, i'm a little tired, i think i'll take a nap here...naked
Oh yes, that will certainly get a woman's attention! :rolleyes: That said, I've never tried that. I'd be far too shy!
he he
Even if i had a chance to try it and wasn't shy, i wouldn't try that... Probably wouldn't give you some results...
As for the question of this thread, i wear boxers...when i sleep.
Never had a gf, but i'd probably wear them in that case too.
Same here. I guess i'll just have to go with the flow... But when you really look at it objectively, there's no need to be shy if that gal wants to go to bed with you. She's already accepted you as you are, no need to be shy.
Yes true, no need to be shy if shes planning to go to bed with you in the first place she must like you for you
You try telling me that when the situation happens! Any woman who wants to get me into bed is gonna have a fight on her hands. I'm too shy to be doing anything. Even if she wants to just talk to me, I'd be terrified that she wanted more. While at college, a female student asked me back to her place for sex. Not only did I say no, but I never spoke to her again!
I know the feeling. But I managed to overcome it a bit. All you need to do is ask yourself why you would react in such a manner. Is there a reason? A good reason is if you don't like the girl and wouldn't touch her with a stick. But try to be detached from the situation and judge it from a different perspective. You like a girl, she wants to be with you, but you are shy. Why be shy? Your looks? Well, she clearly likes you... Your sex performance? Um... if you screw it up, you'll forget about it in a week, and you probably won't screw it up at all. That's the way i think about it.
And to be honest if it was srewing things up that you was worried about, the girl probably wouldn't care about that anyway! she would much rather you were truthful and shy then being cocky and pretending your some sort of sex god.
I can't help it. That's the way I am. I don't know why I see myself doing that. Any woman who wants to get me into bed will have to put me at ease first, otherwise she might as well give up trying. I don't know why I'm worried about it, maybe fear of the unknown. I'm sorry, I don't know anything about women.
NMRMAK, if you're referring to a crush I had at college that I told you about, I never approached her. I lost my chance. She's off at uni now, chances are with some great boyfriend and without a care in the world for me.
It's probably fear of the unknown. Try analysing it objectively, an you'll see that it's really stupid to have it. It inhibits you from doing a lot of stuff. It's the same kind of fear you have before you take a high jump into the water. Once you try it, you see that it's not that bad. The actual standing on the edge is killing you, and after a while you just give up, thus missing great fun. The same applies to bungee jumps/parachute jumps/love/sex
Right now, I'm more worried about finding a woman in the first place! I couldn't go up to a woman and say I liked her, let alone fancied her. If I did that, I wouldn't be able to look her straight in the eye again.
Nope, was referring to my own crush that i lost two years and a ton of self-esteem and optimism over.
Thats why going on the pull is horrible. The best way to meet a partner is through friends or similar.
Just go out, dont try and pull people, just try and meet new people. The rest will come on its own.