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Please someone say yes...
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Well, it's come down to this.
Here goes...
<sigh>
Anyone like to go out with me?
There, said it.
Here goes...
<sigh>
Anyone like to go out with me?
There, said it.
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The sympathy vote.
There is someone who would like to go out with you, keep your chin up.
That gets my vote every single time.
hey mate... remember this.. they're more women than men in the world
and... where you from mate, look.. someone will come along, it isn't the amount of people you have.. it's the quaility, it's better to have non, than to have tons. trust me.. I know..
Nice taste in music there though.
Who's that aimed at me?
if so, no my situation is diffrent
You'll get it someday, just don't focus on it all that often. That never leads anywhere nice.
I feel so lonely sometimes that the thought of being with anyone would make me happy... so I try to find someone.. anyone.. yes.. i am sad.. now the gf's i have had.. hadn't worked out.... because we didn't suited.. because I was going for anyone.. don't get me wrong.. there are a few I like..... a few got on... and one.. one I even loved.. but.. don't turned into me.. don't go looking for anyone person.. the first female.. hang in there.. your find someone..
Just keep msiling
Didn't it work out with the girl you were dating then? What went wrong?!
Henceforth you become obsessed with them even if they don't like you, but you try and talk to them as much as you can. You try to be around them, but you just keep on getting rejected. Finally they end up with someone else and you end up in misery.
Your theory makes more sense, I believe, having come from that exact same situation I just described myself.
You effectively just described me.
Now i feel sad No make that Sad, and feel Bad
Im a nice guy really.
You'll become too dependent on them, you need to be able to be happy whether you're in a relationship or not. If and when it all goes to pot, you'll feel even more wanky than you do now.
Not saying there aren't people who've had their lives turned upside down by that special someone, course there are, but if you obsess over the dream of being wanted, loved, then it can fuck you and any relationship you might have right up.
Like, are there other areas of your life you could develop more, to make yourself happier?
Me, I couldn't care less about women or relationships justnow. I need to love myself, I don't need anybody else to come and fuck that up at the minute.
That's so dead on. Wish I'd said that :mad:
There's nowt wrong with you, just the attitude you're approaching love and relationships with. Everything said previously is so true, you just need to be yourself, relax and stop actively looking for "the one" (if they indeed exist). To quote alcohol (well kind of), Good things come to those who...wait. It's true
Although saying that when things get lonely/down in the dumps it is nice to have someone there.
I will say this though, women can smell desperation a mile off so at all costs avoid coming across that way or you've shot yourself in the foot.
I reckon confidence is the key in more ways than one. If you're a confident enough person, you've no reason to keep beleiving that you'll always be single. Also, confidence on it's own would make being single a lot more fun and you might not feel so down about the fact that you haven't met anyone - you'd certainly be happier with yourself which is probably the most important thing.
Sometimes a relationship just comes along from out of the blue - sounds wanky and patronising but it's not meant to be. Or, if you concentrate on building up confidence (Google it, or even steal some confidence building MP3s of Kaaza), then that can help too.
Final bit of advice - get out and about and enjoy yourself, you've a hell of a better chance of meeting somebody if you're out than if you stay in feeling bad about things.
Not those that are soley on the internet - you can't have a romantic relationship with someone you've never met!
However, I know of at least five couples who've met through the internet and are still together.