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bad to be a virgin????
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is it bad to be a 20yro virgin????????????
i could of lost it ages ago, i duno why i havent something has always held me back before and now i really want to i feel really uncomfortable, almost freakish to still be a virgin.
any views???????/
i could of lost it ages ago, i duno why i havent something has always held me back before and now i really want to i feel really uncomfortable, almost freakish to still be a virgin.
any views???????/
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If you felt something holding you back before...obviously you werent ready.... now you feel that you are ready... fair enough.... just need to find that person you'd like to have it with...
Nothing to be freakish about. At least when you do.. do it... you'll be ready and won't regret it.
Hope that helps :cool:
YOU'RE DOOMED :crying:
Of course it's not terrible. Very few people are left "mature" virgins because of the hype young folk are given to lose their virginity. If anything, I think it's quite impressive.
I suppose there are times where I'd still have liked to have waited - however things the way they are I'm glad it's over. Sex is overrated and the first won't always be the best. You'll always have better sex to look forward to provided you find a decent person to share that intimacy.
Don't beat yourself up for a choice quite strong to you - that's more degrading than losing it just for the sake of losing it when you want to keep a bit of integrity to yourself - so to speak.
Good luck! xx
to be honest most of my male friends are 21/22 year old virgins. i dont find them weird or sad or insanely introverted or anything really.
You could always auction it off on ebay like that student did, she got £8,400 for hers and was able to give up her part time job and pay all her fees
I won't be surprised though if the tax man don't come looking for his cut.
If only I were a virgin
I actually heard of this lady getting a surgery to "get back" her virginity.....how odd is that... :chin:
it's actually a pretty expensive procedure.
Even though she could have probably just stop having sex for months or a year and it'd save her the money
Tell the truth, you're not missing out on much. Sex is fantastic, but it's not the be-all and end-all of life. Not in one so young anyway.
Stop fretting, and the time will come. You could go and pull a ugly bird tonight, and she'd be grateful, but that's just a bit, well, pathetic really.
Need a helping hand luv?
Its no problem, you have the rest of your life to find someone you love.
i think they sew the hymen up again or something like that...and ta-da, you're a born again virgin!
I'll be a virgin until I'm in a long term relationship - it just so happens that I haven't found one yet!
Be proud that you're not some kind of put around and lost it as a 'child'. Be proud that you know what you want, and you're not afraid to wait
Ilora x
Ilora x
what, and men don't want an experienced lover?
you'll experience these things in time, there's no hurry!
Yup, when all you need is some bubble wrap and a broomhandle.
I think anybody who judges another on lack of sexual experience ain't worth getting with.
I think it's cute if somebody's a virgin. And all the more fun to show them the ropes & help them explore their bodies.
Compare that to a person who has shagged loads and loads of people..... some good, some crap, some magnificent (who are most likely to be one night stands that they never see again). This persons sex isn't getting better and better...... its going all over the place.
^ Dunno if that made sense but my point to angelblue is be proud that you're a virgin!!!
Am I right here or am I still totally old-fashioned?
And that takes time and stability.
I don't really understand why it's shameful being or not being a virgin.
I'm 17 and I'm still one of the unlucky few, but in the long run whatever happens, happens.
You're not old fashioned at all. You'd regret it if you lost it to someone who didn't mean anything to you or wasn't the right person.
Well I really couldn't think of any other word to describe it. Being denied pleasure on that magnitude when the majority of people I know have it at their disposal, well I guess it makes me feel a bit unwanted, unseen, and useless. Some people get what the want, some people don't. The ones that don't aren't very lucky.