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how do tell when you are in love?
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i'm not sure where to put this so mods please put it where you feel fits. i'm sure there has been many threads on this before, but. how do you know know when your in love?...seriously, is it just a feeling, or what??....
please explain to this me :S
please explain to this me :S
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yeah well i wasn't to sue where to put it, me being to analitical...:S
Yah i think you can get away with that one... lol
even if you don't, you're still probably not.
i'm nessescerialy asking for myself, i'm asking what people other feel...in a matter of intrest....me?? myself, i don't have a clue about anything at the moment to be honest...i need to talk to the person involved. but i get a fluttery feeling everytime is see his face, or his name is mentioned, or when i think about him.....
i think i'm falling rather than have fallen.....:D
Seriously doubting that having to go through wanky relationship after wanky relationship is gonna be worth it, just to find this "love" feeling.
Can't be assed with it anyway, I'm too weak.
it does this to you :)
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i shall try rolly....no fetish heels....promise! :P
Then you really like them
Then you think you love them
Then you do
Or at least thats whats happened to me both times.
And Roll was right - if you have to ask you aren't in love. You just know when you are.
I think so much of the confusion arises because, whereas Sanskrit has ninety-six words for love; ancient Persian has eighty and Greek four; English only has one. I think us English speakers do know the 96 forms of love - we just squish it into one word!
That's why we're all confused over what "love" is, cause we have dozens of definitions for it. In the end it's probably not a question of whether you're in love, but which love it is.
I so agree with all of that
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I can agree with the fact that you just know. Something just clicks in your head and when it does, well, it depends, sometimes it can be a good thing, sometimes a bad thing, unfortunately for me it was bad.
I see it as you meet the person, get on with them, become closer, like them more and then it depends. After that sometimes the thought of them can get you nervous and if that happens, the moment you see them you it's horrible because you go all weak and even with just a smile from them to you, your heart has a mind of its own and you could almost faint right there.
The other symptom that I have noticed is that you start trying to convince yourself that you are not in love, if you manage to do that once and forget about it, then ok maybe you wern't but if you are trying time and time again, you are kidding nobody but yourself, you are in love and there's nothing you can do to change it.
But Hey!! That's my opinion, there will be loads who disagree.
And you find yourself thinking about them every other minute
the first person doesnt even compare to the second one - then you know you're on love
(sorry, that doesnt really make any sense )
That pretty much sums it up I think. Apart from the obvious "you just know" thing.
Love isn't the gushy feeling in a new relationship, love is being with the same person for a long time, and thinking they are wonderful even when they have a sleepyhead and spots.
It cannot be defined, it just is.
Oh, and it's not anything real, there'sd no "the one". It's all just chemical- people need to read A Certain Chemistry by Mil Millington for a good laugh.