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In all those 3 months did she not get even slightly suspicious though?
don't feel like that, it's not your fault. you can't help it if you like someone and they're all nice to you and then....:(
just keep your chin up.
She was suspicious of him getting close to one other girl, but when asked about it he totally denied it, and she trusted him. She definitely wasn't expecting him to be with 4 other girls... poor thing.
*holds up chin*
I'm generalizing quite a bit, excuse me.
Yes there are a few of us out there that know we wouldn't defile a hair on our lover's body.
But some men are just trash, obvious or not. Some can hide it very well, other's are blatantly egotistical, sex driven fanatics. It's just the plain and simple truth.
i seem to atract the ones who hide it well but once its over its obvious they were blatenty egotistical, sex driven wankers!
damn them
Nobody forces you to get these "damn men". It seems from all of these posts that women can spot them from a mile off, but still they go for them knowing exactly what will happen. As soon as it does, men get the rant and the blame all over again. One day someones going to say something like; women deserve all the emotional trauma they get when they know what men are like and still go for them anyway. And as soon as someone says it, I imagine that people (not women of course) will start agreeing.
If a guy goes out with the #1 whore of the city, he accepts that there is a chance that she's going to cheat on him with another man. On top of this, all the other girls will group round him in a big circle while pointing and laughing "I told you so", figuratively speaking. Why is the scenario so different for women?
same as blokes who sleep around aint frowned upon as much as women doing it..
yeah if he knows shes the number one whore then he knows wat he'd letting himself in for. but most of the time u just dont know, people seem so nice and its only wen u've fallen for them that they turn out to be tossers
...Assuming that you've met them for the first time and you know nothing about them, then I'd slightly agree with you. If you know the bloke in the slightest you'll know if he has a reputation for doing what he does, for example; if you go to college with him you'll know what he's been like with other women. Even if you don't, you'll still be able to tell.
Women don't care dick at the time. They only care after when they're suffering from their apparent "huge" loss.
thats not true. my ex who this is all orginally about, my mate knew him for a while before i met him and knew nothing of what he was like, and it took me until after we broke up to find out what he was really like.
so what u said doesnt fit
and i do 'care dick' at the time, i wouldnt ever get with someone if i knew at the time that in a few weeks time he'd turn round and hurt me.
you've made good points so far but please dont make generalisations
yeah, i've known people to think that can change the 'bad boys' and that it'll b differnt with them. but they still know deep down what they are really like.
but yeah as lucifer said, why should you assume they would treat you badly?
everything that has been said can be applied to either sex, this thread isnt just for man bashing
Should be.
lol we can make it a dean bashing thread if u want
go for it.
i won't name names.
they can just be numbers hehe!
well dean....he's a tosser basically! not much else to say! lol
Ooops sorry that'll be me, everyone else seems to have better luck