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Being Compaired
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Does anyone ever think that they are being compaired by their partner to their ex(s)?
I feel this about my boyfriend. I always think that he compaires me to his ex and thinks that she is better than me in bed.:(
I feel this about my boyfriend. I always think that he compaires me to his ex and thinks that she is better than me in bed.:(
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I used to get paranoid about people thinking about exs!
Me too, it's awful isn't it?
Your boyfriend should reassure you. I got really upset when I was with my boyf once and said I was sure I was the worst he'd ever had and he said "Well not the very worst" which he thought would make it better. He couldn't understand why I cried even more! Now he only ever says nice things. Tell your boyf that you need reassurance. Point out that you reassure him and it should work both ways.
Yeah he did in the end. He was trying to help and just didn't think. He panics when I cry and I think he just said the first thing that came into his head! But the sex has got better now we've been together a few months and when he says its really good I believe him. And when i say hes the best ever I mean it too:)