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I just dont like the idea of people who are still children having sex, especially if its just some fling. I just dont get it at all, why do kids want to lose their virginity so quickly nowadays, i mean back in my day when wheels were square
You young whippersnapper.
I guess im just a bit traditional in my ways. I could have had sex with my first gf, last decemeber, she was pushing me for it after 2 weeks. I didnt do it of course but i let her push me to a certain extent, and to be honest i regret that even. Guess it serves me right for having my first relationship with a girl 18 months older than me huh.
If someone decides that they want to, whatever their age, if they know what it is they're letting themselves in for- a whole new dimension of a relationship- then I can't see anything wrong with it.
What I think is awful is when people let themselves be persuaded, when they don't really want to, or don't actually know how much it'll affect them, I mean, it actually changed me, not just my relationship with my boyf'.
Also I know people who did it, not under pressure, not in innocence, but just with the wrong person, and they didn't really get anything out of it- it must be awful to remember your first time as "Not that special"
Basically I think that age is irrelevant, but its important to be ready for it, knowing what you're doing, and with someone you're not going to resent/forget/hate/any other negative feeling.
Of course it can be fine without this stuff, this is just an ideal situation!
Sorry- I'm rambling- I'll shut up now!
Freyja
Am I going to be the youngest again? I started working, drinking and doing drugs before anyone else I know... Sex too?
And now I'm unemployed, I don't drink and don't do drugs (this last thing since I was 17). No I haven´t had sex for ages either... :crying:
I was 13, she was 26. Now I'm 22. Do I regret it? NO WAY! But I always think "hmm, they are too young to be doing that at the back of the bus, I better watch to make sure nothing bad happens". Double standards, as usual.
double standards? or just enjoy watching cos it makes you horny?
Urgh. That must have been some fucked up slut.
She is a very nice girl, and a good friend. Very, very sexy...
As is always said, 'There's nothing like a good woman. Well, there is, but mine's got a puncture'
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