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im not happy, there you go i admit it. so have a go at me if u feel like it cos i really just dont care anymore. ive sick and tired of people having a go at me because i dont do wat they want and maybe i just want some time to myself. but if people wont just back off then how can i do that?
sorry if ive snapped at people today but you really just dont understand this time
sorry if ive snapped at people today but you really just dont understand this time
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Stand up for your self. Show 'em you mean what you say.
like they said....... we cant help if we dont know whats wrong!
some of us who do know you.. and i would like to say quite well, are interested in helping you if we can chelle.....
listen im sure you have your reasons for not wanting to talk about it but call me or something if you want to ok?... thats what friends are for right?
not sure wether it actualy helps me or not though.
What's up?
you could just rant and get it off your chest? or perhaps your livejournal? either way you don't seem very happy to keep it locked up. and this is kinda what you said but if people are upsetting you you've got to tell them... otherwise they're going to keep upsetting you (or you could pretend not to care)
theres always pm's for those you do trust.
hope you feel better soon, no matter whats wrong, its not nice to feel shite. There are always people who care about you, just someties you don't realise it until afterwards.
I get the feeling though that you already know what you need to do. Pm me if you wanna chat ok! Take care
i know wat i have to do. i have to go out more and meet people to get some friends. but its hard to go out on your own and meet people cos they will think your a loser to go out on ur own. so not gonna work
Ah i get that problem, no good at making friends in real life situations. I don't thnk they will think you are a loser tho.
Yeah thats what happens alot i'm affraid. People move on ect...you will get more friends in time.
they are at school in the week and i work weekends and most week days depending on my days off. ive rung them and said lets meet up in town and they always have other plans or just dont wanna come out
Don't run ragged around people who won't reciprocate your efforts.
Join a gym, or a fitness class. Not saying you're fat or owt: it'll just get you out and about, plus you can feel better and look a bit better too. But, it's up to you to make that move. We can only offer suggestions, yanno?
Ask them to go out for a night on the weekend to a club or something, get back to the old ways.
most people make more friends in their first few weeks of uni than at any other time in their lives, cause everyone's in the same situation, and everyone needs to make new friends.