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Cumming without an Orgasm
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I had sex for the first time in like a year the other day. Anyway, it was amazing but when I came, I didn't orgasm properly. I mean it felt good all the way through the shag and I know I came properly (not just that pre-climax dribble lol) but for some reason I didn't orgasm properly. I've never had that happen before. This happened to anyone else? :nervous:
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once you have more practice, you'll be able to hold yourself back for as long as possible, intensifying the orgasm.
dont worry about it, there's nothing wrong with you
lol I've never had this happen to me before though.
Even my first time was better than that! lol!
I'd say thats fairly normal, me not being a bloke though i wouldn't take that as fact, more like an educated guess.
Lol don't even go there. Broke up with girlfriend and just kinda had really bad self confidence issues when it comes to meeting girls since, unless I'm fucked in a club and then I always make a dick out of myself anyway.
I'm dreading getting to a year, but I think that's what's guna happen! it's easily done I think
Aww i'm starting to feel bad for mocking you now. Hmm nope it's gone
Bless. Well least you got a fuck eh. Not a brilliant one but it's a start.
I'm easily going to hit a year at the current rate. My self confindence for relationships got ripped to shreads over several years and its finally back.
Oh no. You've all gone depressed on me! I should never make jokes :crying:
Lol true, it made me feel alot better about myself anyway, and she seemed to enjoy it lol so can't complain too much.
I'm not depressed at all, I know why I havent got laid, and a lot of it was for my own good. Now if someone just didnt live so sodding far away...
's ok, just jealous that you're getting some and we're not
Lol i'm probably getting as much as you are mate.
I hope not, for your sake
I don't think it's a problem, although I don't feel satisfied so end up finishing myself off after, or if i'm with a decent girl, get her to do it for me.
Don't worry
That would offend me. I'd feel not good enough to make you come.
What would offend you? The guy not coming or needing to be finished off?
I've had girls not come through sex and ask me to finish them off afterwards and I don't mind.
Also it's never been a case of the girl being too crap and therefore it didn't happen, it's always a case of an unitmely distraction. Although a girl might feel guilty if she stopped just as it was happening and that's what stopped it. I don't mind though, it's not like it's easy to tell... most of the time.
Lol, i know that feeling !
Wouldn't worry fella, thats happened to me before. Just feels like your brains ran away from your cock! - Just a bit of a head fuck perhaps.
sorry just had to get this straight in my mind
No, for women I think cumming pretty much = orgasm, but don't quote me.
For men, cumming is the physical action of ejaculation
Thanks for that....have aalways been curious what it feels like for a bloke!! :thumb: Tried to get a bloke I was seeing to describe it once and he couldn't....think he said something rubbish like "it just feels like you're having an orgasm"
Yea, the fuzziness, imagine getting really drunk really quickly, you can't focus your eyes, and if it was really good you can almost collapse. Your legs go shaky when you try to stand up, you just lose it really.
It depends how good it was though, if you masturbate it will be so crap, but after a long session with someone who knows you inside out, especially when they bring you close several times but not quite there, it will literally blow your brains out, and your body will almost shut down completely. It was funny once, I tried to get up, but my legs wouldnt support my weight and I went straight onto the floor