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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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I am 14, I know I have been through puberty as I have excessive pubic hair and muscle mass and my voice has broke. Yet when I masterbate, I dont ejeculate.
I have been wanting to persue a relationship with a girl but Im afraid if we have sex and I dont ejeculate I will be laughed at by her.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    For start I can't be bothered to go through all the crap on "your to young to be doing it" etc. but just take precautions, even if you don't ejaculate!
    Look puberty doesn't finish till your 17-18 n e way so don't worry. She shouldn't laugh, if you are worried best thing to do is leave it a while!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So as to be able to answer this properly, can you confirm whether you achieve orgasm or not?, as ejaculation and orgasm are not necessarily the same thing

    regards derby
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Everyone worries about something sex-related and yours is a common problem, so I hear. If you do have sex, then unless she's some 30 year-old hooker [no offence!] then she's going to be a lot more scared of what YOU are thinking about HER. Believe me. When I popped my cork [soz, I like that one!] I was all the time thinking stupid little things, am I doing it right, is it s'posed to feel like that and of course, the infamous orgasm-faking. Which is slightly stupid since apparantly only 30% of us chicas climax through staight sex!

    Again, no offence! I'm not saying that orgasm will have to be faked or anything, just that the last thing SHE will be doing is wondering why you're not ejaculating. And if you're worried about her laughing at you, then you shouldn't be having it off with her anyway! Why is that blokes like bitches?! Make sure you like her, and are comfortable with her before you go doing the wild thing. That way the chances of her laughing at you border on zero.

    And use a condom!

    *|* Chica *|*

    Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by male1892:
    I am 14, I know I have been through puberty as I have excessive pubic hair and muscle mass and my voice has broke. Yet when I masterbate, I dont ejeculate.
    I have been wanting to persue a relationship with a girl but Im afraid if we have sex and I dont ejeculate I will be laughed at by her.

    I can only agree with the other comments, do not worry about it. Ejaculation is not the key to intamacy but what feels good, loving and sensual. recently I have been on medication that has the side effect of delayed ejaculation I was not aware of these effects till a few weeks of intamacy with my ex-girlfriend (and myself in the loo) I can honestly say that it was the most sensual sex I ever had. Even the girlfriend was happy !!. just live for the moment have fun and always be safe, even if you don't ejaculate during masturbation, doesn't mean you won't during intercourse. What's a couple of quid for a lifetime with regret.

    Luka

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm a bit concerned about this, if you reach climax but don't cum in masturbation,

    there's a medical condition in which semen is ejaculated back into the bladder, and weather you mind or not, you should see a doctor ASAP.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The ability to cum can be after you grow pubic hair. Besides, the first couple of times it normally takes ages without scorching hot porn.

    Just relax about it, its not such a big deal, if your only fourteen then there's realy nothing to worry about. Just have patience, you'll get there in the end.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When you cum if you pull back on your foreskin on the front that will prevent any semen comung out, just dont touch you nob and see what happens as you cum.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes, but he has clearly stated that his voice has broken, he has pubic hair, etc but he can't cum.

    I therefor stick to my previous statement.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It is the same with me sometimes. But it is different on the actual time of sex, compared to porn and baby lotion <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by All For None And All For Me:
    <STRONG>It is the same with me sometimes. But it is different on the actual time of sex, compared to porn and baby lotion <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"></STRONG>


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