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Advice needed please, start uni at 22 years old?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
edited March 27 in Work & Study
Hello people! Basically further education was never on the agenda for me, as I knew that I would be working with my dad as soon as I left school. Thought I was jack the lad and happily worked like a horse from the age of 15. Before I knew it I was 21, had lost contact with most of my friends, had a virtually non existent social life and begrudged the fact that I was not at uni having a great time like most of my friends are/did. I also hated the fact that I was working no where near my full potential.

So I am asking the question is it too late to go to uni now? Will I fit in even though I will be 22 if I manage to get in? (looks like I will need to do a foundation course for a year to get the relevant qualifications to start the degree) I really feel that I need to revitalize myself, get some new friends and learn some life lessons as to be honest for a 21 year old I am woefully immature in some aspects. Please give me your views. All the best, Leon.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    They love mature students (21 plus), foundation degrees are quite easy to get on when youre over 21. Depends on what degree and the uni though, they might ask for an A level or something similar.
    eta: student forum tbh
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Your exactly like me - apart from the jack the lad bit :p - i'm 20 and im considering the same thing as you. I was worried that by the time i got round to it (in a year or two, after getting more qualifications etc) that i'd feel too old and wouldn't fit in. I think though, from the people i know at uni, that 22 isn't neccessarily old? Plenty of people on here will be able to help i'm sure.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My friends mum she went to uni and she must have been about 30. She had no problems, got her degree and is now earning big money :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I started when I was 20, because I wasn't well behaved when I was 17 and fucked up my A levels. So I got in and everyone's 18 and I'm feeling fairly oldish. Until I meet up with an old school teacher who reminds me that at the end of the day, a year or two spent furthering your education isn't going to make anyone bat an eyelid when you're in your 30's.

    Really, if this is what you want to do, go for it. Uni is an amazing experience and besides, people drop out and reenter the education system every year, so even though I felt like the oldest one there, in actuality there's men and women who are in their 40's and 50's...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When you take into account resits, years out, international students and people who take a while to figure out what they wanna do, there's actually plenty of people who are in their early 20's when they first start uni, so I wouldn't worry about it. And 3 or 4 years is nothing anyway. When you have tonnes of stuff in common, such as the course you're doing, the clubs you (will) like, living away from home for the first time, you'll forget about how old you are.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm going to be 21 when I start my second year at uni, and can't see it being a problem in the slighest, you'd be in a better position than me because you'd qualify for all the 'mature' student support.

    Think it's fair to say though that the term 'mature' doesn't apply to many of the ones I know. You get a fair age range at uni anyway, the ones that are summer birthdays and have just turned 18 (or the Scots who are 17) through to the September birthdays who've had gap years and are already 20 when they start their 1st years, and that's just from the standard 'school leavers'.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In my seminar group there is a lad who's only 16 :confused:.

    In my house, there are first year students of the ages 18,19,23 and 24. (and I'm 19). There's another one as well, I'm not sure how old she is. Well grown up for her age though, fills the entire bloody freezer with her leftovers, so I get about 1/12 of it when I should get 1/6 (yes, I do get anal about overusing your proportion of space when it runs out :()

    I bet you'll be fine.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Going back to school anytime is grand. I Just started back last fall (at 21) and in my classes I was actually one of the youngest. I had to take night classes so I could work at the same time. ALot of the people I went to class were in their 30s or 40s and older.

    Its never too late to go back :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'll be 21 when I start my degree in Oct this year, so 22 isn't old!!

    I'm a mature student at college now (most of the girls are 16-18) and love that I'm older - I feel much wiser, and it's actually become an advantage!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm gonna be 23 when I start uni this september! I just didnt know what i wanted to do and by the time i decided i'll be older than everyone else. I'm a bit worried of being older than all the 18 year olds buit at the end of the day i sort of want to live the student lifestyle. So i guess we'll see how it goes!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im 21 and have only just started my degree....and im living with a 23 year old, 25 year old and a 30 year old all in the same boat.

    age is pretty irrelivant i think
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I started when I was 21, now at nearly 25 I'm looking to graduate and already have a job lined up. Uni is a great experience and I certainly didn't feel out of place being older. I've got friends at uni who currently range from 21 to 33 with quite a lot of my friends being the same age as me, so I certainly haven't ever felt out of place age wise.

    What I would say is do it now and not later in life. The guys who are in their 30's are finding problems getting graduate jobs, which seeing as they're doing the same degree, expected to get the same results and have similar previous work experience we can only put down to age.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Seriously thinking of going back to uni myself, but starting afresh.

    Thing is, if I start this september coming, would clearing be my best bet, or do mature students go about ucas differently? I mean its a scary thought not having a 6th form tutor telling you what to do.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I applied through UCAS as a mature student in March time I think it was. You can apply direct to a university as well as far as I know.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    KTM wrote:
    Hello people! Basically further education was never on the agenda for me, as I knew that I would be working with my dad as soon as I left school. Thought I was jack the lad and happily worked like a horse from the age of 15. Before I knew it I was 21, had lost contact with most of my friends, had a virtually non existent social life and begrudged the fact that I was not at uni having a great time like most of my friends are/did. I also hated the fact that I was working no where near my full potential.

    So I am asking the question is it too late to go to uni now? Will I fit in even though I will be 22 if I manage to get in? (looks like I will need to do a foundation course for a year to get the relevant qualifications to start the degree) I really feel that I need to revitalize myself, get some new friends and learn some life lessons as to be honest for a 21 year old I am woefully immature in some aspects. Please give me your views. All the best, Leon.

    Go for it, its never too late..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MrG wrote:
    Seriously thinking of going back to uni myself, but starting afresh.

    Thing is, if I start this september coming, would clearing be my best bet, or do mature students go about ucas differently? I mean its a scary thought not having a 6th form tutor telling you what to do.
    It depends what you want to study. Mature students apply in the same way as any other student - through UCAS.

    The deadline for Route A courses is 15 January (mainly academic courses) however if you're looking at an Art based course then Route B's deadline is 24th March.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was doing an assignment with a guy last semester whose youngest kid is 13 years old! I'm 21 and he has a kid older than me. My uni caters to mature students and I have worked with a wide variety of age groups. In my uni many of the older lot are the best students, really ambitious and goal oriented. They've had the real world experience that many of us 'younger kids' don't have.

    I also have two brothers, one who dropped out of uni and the other who was never going to go. Both are now at uni after long breaks, one as a 30 year old and the other 27. They are both loving the experience and are doing really well.

    Go for it!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im 22 and have just started the first year of my degree in this academic year.
    Before this I took a BND course for IT Practitioners. This got me the grades and points I needed to get into uni but I dont think it matters so much what courses you take to get there (although I'm sure it would help) because now I'm doing a BA in Business studies which is completely unrelated.
    Dont worry about age for second though mate - going back to education will be the best choice you ever make, it was mine!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I started uni 2 months shy of my 22nd birthday and I've never had any trouble. If anything, being older has been more benefit to me because I'm wiser/
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When I was at university there were lots of students of that age.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    22 is not old for uni. Admitedly a lot of people there are fresh-faced 18 year olds, but that just means that you can meet up with the other more mature people and laugh at them.

    Really, there's a whole spectrum of ages. If you start at 22 you won't be the oldest person there by a long way, and there will be plenty of people your age to socialise/live with.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I started uni (for the second time) at 20. My best friends at uni were 26, 30 and 31. There were quite a lot of mature students on my course.

    The only annoying thing was sitting in lectures and a lot of the 18 year olds who had never lived away from before boasting about how drunk that had been the previous night. But that's not necessarily an age thing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You'll be fine :) I'm in the same boat really, I never finished A Levels. However when I was 19, I realised how much I wanted to go to University. To do what I want to do, it seems I need a degree! I want to do it anyway, I feel jealous of those having the excellent social life too! I'm doing an access course, for over 19's which should get me into University this September when I'll be 21. I'm hoping I won't feel like an oldie. Is there a difference between an 18 year old and a 21 year old? I don't know!

    xxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was 22 when i started my first degree, ok so i'd not been out of education
    (6th form then college), but i was still your age. Far from being the oldest one there i was one of the youngest. There were a lot of mature students in my uni..

    You seem to have this preconceived idea that uni is fun. I can't speak for anyone else, but for me it was just hard work. I'd love to know where all these parties were supposed to be. I'd never been to one or even heard talk of one.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cherrypops wrote:
    Is there a difference between an 18 year old and a 21 year old?
    I'm at college as a mature student at nearly 21 and there seems to be a huge difference in maturity. Things like bragging about drinking, sex, bunking days off etc and a general 'can't be bothered' attitude (that I had when I was 18 haha....) If you can look past that, then it doesn't matter really.

    it still bugs the hell out of me though haha
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My best mate at Uni has just started, at 33 I think, with a wife and two kids. As one of his kids was only born in November, he can struggle with that aspect, and money as his wife isn't working right now, but with actual university, he's doing fine.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    While what Illora sais may well be true, there's a big difference between the average level of maturity of a college/6th form student and that of a uni one so once you get to uni that is far far less of an issue.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm still completing an Access course in Humanities (a popular choice for mature students). I started when I was nineteen which is the minimal age for an access course. I'm really enjoying it. The emphasis is to get you ready for uni. There are people on my course from young teen mums to middle aged folk and house wives. They really help you when applying to UCAS and guide you along. Hopefully starting at my chosen uni in September!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There are people in my courses who are around 50 and even 60+ and believe it or not, they are the ones who I get on best with, so 22 isn't old at all!! Besides age doesnt matter at uni, no-one seems to care. So go for it!! :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Access courses are great aren't they :) It's a second chance for me, and it's nice being with older people (well I'm talking mostly over 20's) and I'm hoping Uni will be the same. I can cope with the immature idiots, I was like that once :p

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