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Cheers Scary Monster, I do know in my heart of hearts that it's not unreasonable but I feel like a right bitch/drama queen. As for valuables, there's bot all of value left in the house except the Wii the waster got from his nan for Christmas (amazingly hasn't been sold for blow yet, I think he likes to play the boxing game and visualise my face).
I felt like pissing on it this morning in some kind of sick revenge :hyper:
Thank you MoonArcanum, I hope it works out in my favour too - fingers crossed.
I don't really have a simple answer to your problem like just kick him out, because I can see it is complicated, what with him being your boyfriends family.
But something has to be done, it can't carry on like that, but then I think you already know that yourself..
Is that place still the pits? There was talk of doing it up even back when I lived up there and that was some time ago.
If you have a change of heart and decide to do it when you go back for the rest of your stuff, make sure you unlug it first.
Of course it's his fault. Plenty of people have hard lives and don't act like him.
:yes: You don't have to tell me.
He does a spot of dealing which is his main source of income and then he gets his dole cheque which is immediately spunked away on a giro takeaway and a few choice gurners. Everything else is begged, borrowed or - more often than not - stolen. He gets nowt from me and hasn't in ages, but softinthehead is always subbing him or being stolen from. Div.
Miffy yeah it is still the pits. They did something to the windows on the towerblocks a while back and then must have decided it wasn't worth it. There was talk of tearing them down and starting again but it's all gone quiet so I guess it's just going to be left to fester.
I hadn't thought of the electrocution problem - thanks for the tip
Anyway I went down there on my lunchbreak and all his crappy stuff is out on the landing in binbags [I even felt the need to check that it wasn't my belongings] so something is afoot. Of course - despite asking - I couldn't get a civil/explanatory word out of him as he won't speak to me and was buzzing off his tits anyway. Can't go back now until he's safely out as he'll probably try and smother me in my sleep :chin:
Oh well :wave:
I am made up for you hun.
wait a bit longer, make sure the coast is clear and then head back :-)
How weird [but nice, might I add!] that you posted that just before I was popping on here to blow a gasket about it! I am done with the pair of them for now I think... last thing I need at the minute, pair of wasters.
:mad:
We've got a spare bedroom and i love cooking for guests. Plus no sexual advances. Any good ?
Sorry to hear that. I had hoped that no news was good news but obviously not. I take it you're still staying at your parents?
It seemed it was good news at first but maybe that is a case of me kidding myself/hoping for the best. The way they were on tonight I think maybe they are happy alone in their little bubble of craziness. We shall see, I suppose.
I guess if it gets really bad, just give Stephen the ultimatum - I go or he goes.
Where are you staying now Briggi?