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Nightmares?
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Since Monday night I've been having nightmares. Dad went in for an emergency op two weeks ago, whilst he was in hospital I was worried and hardly slept, and since he came home (Monday) I've been sleeping right through the night but finding myself constantly tired and having either nightmares or dreams where something bad happens. The main theme is Dad dying in hospital, so I'm pretty sure it's all connected.
Before this, I've never had a dream I can remember, let alone a nightmare, so it's quite troubling.
Are there any sleeping tablets I could take (either prescibed or over the counter) that would eliminate these nightmares?
Before this, I've never had a dream I can remember, let alone a nightmare, so it's quite troubling.
Are there any sleeping tablets I could take (either prescibed or over the counter) that would eliminate these nightmares?
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I doubt it. To my recollection you dream when you're 'light sleeping' and about to fall into deep sleep or just coming out of deep sleep so i doubt medication would help.
I'd imagine it's just the stress of your dad being poorly and hopping he gets better soon PLUS there's Christmas on top of that and the thought you might of lost your dad at Christmas. Maybe it's just a subconcious way of your brain letting go of some of the stress and crap.
Hope your dad's better soon.
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I used to have anxiety, so I found that valerium tablets (the're natural) helped me sleep, as does a few drops of lavender on your pillow..
Not to sound superstitious, but I read somewhere that putting a knife under your materess also works... And actually it did work for me (maybe it was sbconscious).
Had an extremely weird nightmare last night/this morning that had nothing to do with my dad whatsoever.
I realise I'm under stress from Uni exams next week, work and struggling to keep horse, as it's taking me hours to get to sleep now, but this is ridiculous. First time in almost 19 years I've even remembered a dream, and it's a nightmare every time I sleep? Sucks.
Any thoughts?
I'm sorry to hear your nightmares are persisting. You might find our factsheet on dreams and nightmares helpful - particularly the section subtitled: Can there be other reasons for nightly frights? which has what seems to be a link to a really useful resource for people who experience ongoing night terrors
Hope this helps.
Take care
Try talking to someone- anyone you trust- about the theme of your nightmares. It might help your mind feel more at ease and less likely to play you up. I really hope you feel better and sleep well soon xXx
some sleeping pills can actually cause nightmares. i seem to remember nytol contains something which causes problems like that. if you are stressed, things like nightmares are not uncommon. they will fade out eventually on their own and you will sleep when your body is knackered enough to make you. so although it sounds tough... put up with them.
Managed not to have one last night and I was up early yesterday, to bed quite late, up early this morning, so I'll try the tire myself out approach for a while.
It's probably all due to stress, it's the brains way of trying to deal with it all. They should go away soon enough!