Sleeping at boyfriend / girlfriends house

Former Member

depends on situation and age really. If your the big drunk smoker type corrupting the innocent homework doing girl then it aint guna happen lol

Former Member

hmmmmmmmmm true that does make sense
but im not particularly that kinda guy im generally more of the nice
caring buit drinks a laal bit o whisky type

Former Member

Hey there,

It would probably be best to start a new thread on this topic as this is an old post from last year.

There isn't much you can do except accept that fact that you can't sleep together, it's their house, their rules so you'll just have to stick it out until they trust you enough or feel that you are both old/mature enough to share a bed.

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the music man wrote: »

iv slept at ma girlfriends house a few times now (im 16) but im kinda forced to sleep downstairs like her parents are great but they dont wanna accept what we get up 2 so im a bit confused what to do
has anyone gort any advice

coz my parents wont even let her sleep near me :O which kinda sucks
but they say its coz her parents wont let me slepp near her
help me :O:banghead:

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squeal wrote: »

Hey there,

It would probably be best to start a new thread on this topic as this is an old post from last year.

There isn't much you can do except accept that fact that you can't sleep together, it's their house, their rules so you'll just have to stick it out until they trust you enough or feel that you are both old/mature enough to share a bed.

Damnit you beat me .

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Franki wrote: »

Damnit you beat me .

Sorry you added the relevant links though so were equal

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squeal wrote: »

Sorry you added the relevant links though so were equal

I was trying to be all moderator-like ;d.

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Franki wrote: »

I was trying to be all moderator-like ;d.

*Helen* links to factsheets though

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Man Of Kent wrote: »

*Helen* links to factsheets though

Why would he need a factsheet just to be told about not posting in old threads ?

Former Member

When I stayed with my ex at first I had to sleep in his bed and he had to sleep downstairs but then they kinda eased up.
With my current boyfriend, dad has no problem with him staying in my room. I just take it that he knows what is going to happen and just lets us. Which is always good, cos I've gotten used to sleeping with him there But my mum has NEVER let me have him stay at her house, I guess it just depends on the parent I guess.

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I always used to stay my exes as he had his own place, plus my parents where never keen on him.

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Franki wrote: »

Why would he need a factsheet just to be told about not posting in old threads ?

*Helen* has factsheets for everything :yes:

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Man Of Kent wrote: »

*Helen* has factsheets for everything :yes:

It's just because you don't love me, isn't it ?

Former Member

I'm not allowed them to stop in my room at home and have had a couple of b/f's parents who haven't allowed it. It's their house and I'll respect it, but since they know that when we're at our own places we sleep in the same bed I don't really get it.