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Stress and Libido
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so... my boyfriend is properly stressed at the moment and he has every right to be cause everything is very up in the air for him.
but it's put him in a very unsexy mood lately. i've tried tactics that i know he'd jump at if he wasn't feeling this way...but he just gets annoyed at me trying.
are there any tricks to bring him back? or do i have to wait out the stressness?
but it's put him in a very unsexy mood lately. i've tried tactics that i know he'd jump at if he wasn't feeling this way...but he just gets annoyed at me trying.
are there any tricks to bring him back? or do i have to wait out the stressness?
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so, wait it out, and support him though it, once it's gone I'm sure everything will return to normal :yes:
you may be putting more on his plate with it. im sure he loves you still and all that just be patient and help him, its what relationships are all about, help each other and get through things, might bring you closer together, shows you care about him and not just wanting him in the bedroom
But we spoke about stuff a lot last night and this morning. We ended up having a laugh for the first time in ages and it was great. It lead, somehow or other, to really good sex but also very different sex, which I feel I need to post about.
But I still know that just because we did it once, doesn't mean I should keep pestering him for it. I'll let him come to me when he's ready.
Thanks guys