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Penis worries stopping me getting some
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Basically, I've got a small penis and it's stopping me from making moves on women for fear that they'll laugh or run off if they ever see what I've got (or not got as the case is).
When flacid it's about 3 inches and very very thin, when erect it's nearly 5 inches but again very very thin. To look at it flacid, it looks ridiculous, like a kid.
It's really getting me down and I went to see the doctor about it last year and he basically said, lose weight and the problem should go away. Well, it hasn't, yet I've lost 6 and a half stone (91lb) and have got down to 12st 1lb (169lb) from 18st 8lb (260lb) which I was in January.
Does anyone have any advice at all?
I know it's size isn't important, it's what you do with it that counts but I just can't see me getting the chance to do anything with it! :banghead:
When flacid it's about 3 inches and very very thin, when erect it's nearly 5 inches but again very very thin. To look at it flacid, it looks ridiculous, like a kid.
It's really getting me down and I went to see the doctor about it last year and he basically said, lose weight and the problem should go away. Well, it hasn't, yet I've lost 6 and a half stone (91lb) and have got down to 12st 1lb (169lb) from 18st 8lb (260lb) which I was in January.
Does anyone have any advice at all?
I know it's size isn't important, it's what you do with it that counts but I just can't see me getting the chance to do anything with it! :banghead:
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I tend to find it's the other stuff that makes a difference, not the size of his cock. Remember that 6" is average, that means about half the male population are smaller than that so you are by no means the only one.
You'd like to think so, would you. Of course, if you are a women you can have as many as you like...
Even guys with larger penises sometimes feel that theirs is not big enough when they view it themselves from above or in a mirror.
The thing is that there are men out there with smaller than 5" penises so as far as things go, you could have been worse off.
Accept yourself. Nothing can change your size (don't even waste your time considering dangerous penis enlargement surgery or any of these silly 'miracle' pills you get in your spam mail).
Build up your confidence in other areas. Keep your weight off and go to the gym. Build a hot body - the girls will love that. And most of all, keep a sense of perspective and humour. Life could be a lot worse. Do you think a man with a 12" penis, living in Dafur, would hesitate for a second to swap his life with yours if it meant just exchanging penises?
If you think the sum of your worth is the size of your penis, you have issues.
:yes: to all of that
5 inches is plenty big enough, and people often have misconceptions about the width of their various body parts.
Like people have said, I think it's your confidence which is a problem here, not your penis size. If women are turned off by you, it's because you are turned off by yourself, if that makes sense? You need to give the impression you are happy and confident with your body and its abilities, and women will believe in that too.
Well done for losing weight, by the way, you should be really proud of yourself
Anyway, sex is more than just how pleasurable it is, sometimes when I've had it it's not felt as physically good but I've prefered it, because of the situation and the circumstance.
Mine might not be the biggest, but it's certainly the busiest!
Bigger doesn't feel better to me :no: Which obviously demonstrates that different women like different things, so there'll be a woman who likes your penis whatever its size or shape :thumb:
Agree with the last point though, sexual satisfaction (especially for women, i think) depends on a lot more than physical aspects... it's all about the emotions and situations involved too.
we're all different. learn to be happy with what you have and your confidence will shine through
You've never going to hurt a girl with 5" (which is a good thing). Get your confidence up, be pleased with the weight you've lost and make some friends.
Amen to that! :thumb:
Seriously though, it IS all about what you do with it, and NOT the size.
He seems to be worried about the girth more then anything and if this is the case you can have fat cells syringed out from the stomach area and injected into the shaft to make it thicker ... if it's affecting his mental health then this may be able to be done under the NHS.
In an ideal world size, shape, etc won't matter but in reality if it effects the original poster's confidence then surgery may be an option and a real solution.
But with any surgery there are risks, the following site has a better description of the procedure and the risks involved
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/menshealth/facts/penissize.htm
Men that are dissatisfied with the appearance of their penis should think very carefully before requesting cosmetic surgery, especially if the size falls within the normal range.
A better option may be to seek the advice of a sexual and relationship therapist, who might be able to offer help and advice.
Using surgery to treat a psychological problem is fraught with risks. If surgery is the only way in which a man can regain his self-esteem and improve his self-image, they should seek advice from an experienced surgeon working in a reputable clinic.
i wouldn't worry about your penis size, if the girl truely likes you she shouldn't either and a relationship shouldn't just be based on sex so it shouldnt be a major issue, aslong as you have one all is good!
It does affect my confidence as it usually stops me from going to chat a girl up or to take anything that may occur, that little bit further and I always use the proper toilet rather than urinal and always make sure I've got shorts on when it comes to getting changed in front of my teammates of my football team but your posts have made me feel better about it.
I suppose there isn't much I can do (despite reading the article - thanks JustWondering) about it so may as well just get on with life.
:thumb:
You've just totally put me off sex. Possibly for life.