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Confused
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Well at the moment I am seeing this guy, nothing serious. Just confused about the situation. He says he doesn't want a relationship with anyone other than this girl who lives in America or something. He says he likes me and I really like him but I am confused. Is he just using me as a stop gap? There is no guarnatee that him and this girl will get together and I don't really know what to think.
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I would try to find someone else. He will continue to mess you around. It's almost insulting to want you yet be distracted by some (frankly unobtainable) girl online. Am I right in guessing that he wants just sexual relationship? Grr, thinking of this makes my blood boil, coming 2nd best to someone online!
I wonder if the girl online knows about you? Doesn't really make him look like a good person does it?
you answered your own question i think when you said 'he doesn't want a relationship with anyone other than this girl who lives in america'. i'd steer clear to be honest, you deserve better than second best.
Amen to that!
At best he is a very confused and conflicted young man, at worst he is trying to have his cake and eat it. At this point you should be thinking - NEXT PLEASE.
Onwards and upwards, honey :thumb: