following on from below..i now have his msn

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ok for those of u that have read 'how to approach him' below, the guy in questions msn ive just been given. do i add him to my account and talk 2 him (bit awkward explaining how i got his address..my mate guessed it...no im not joking!) or add him to another account and talk 2 him as someone else and get to know him that way?? suggestions asap please, thanks guys xx

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ChampagneSupernova wrote:

or add him to another account and talk 2 him as someone else and get to know him that way?? suggestions asap please, thanks guys xx

Erm, you mean deceive him before you even start lol?! Good way to strike up a relationship! Just add him on your own account, and be yourself (Except don't come on to strong straight away). If I was him I'd probably be pleased...

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i personally get pissed off with people adding me on msn that dont know me, but thats because i dont use it to get it much to socialise just to arrange stuff with mates.

you'd be much better off talking to him at the football match

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olaola wrote:

i personally get pissed off with people adding me on msn that dont know me, but thats because i dont use it to get it much to socialise just to arrange stuff with mates.

you'd be much better off talking to him at the football match

maybe but i dont strictly 'not know' him. true ive never spoken to him but i know his parents quite well and we see each other almost every week so he certainly knows of me. so im not a 'crazed fan' as such

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ChampagneSupernova wrote:

maybe but i dont strictly 'not know' him. true ive never spoken to him but i know his parents quite well and we see each other almost every week so he certainly knows of me. so im not a 'crazed fan' as such

the team must have drinks together at the bar afterwards? that would be the best place to go over and say "well played today" or something then get talking

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yep normally a valid suggestion but if youve read my other post thats exactly where the zilch amount of confidence comes into play lol

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just add him

say u saw him on the msn user directory n wondered if he fancies a chat

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i cant speak for everyone, but most people would see that as a bit of a joke. Im not trying to dampen your spirits but i cant see how adding him on msn would attract his interest, because he still wont get to know you. And say you do get to know him wont that put even more pressure and awkardness when you see him at the football when hes with all his mates he'd proberly be quite embarssed.

im quite a confident guy but i would feel much more nervous about adding a random person on msn than just saying hi at a bar.

im basing my opinion on 2 past experiences, so thats just my view, would be interesting to see what others think aswell

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personally i'd think you were a bit sad if you'd guessed my e-mail address.

just ask him!!!!

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lucifer devil wrote:

personally i'd think you were a bit sad if you'd guessed my e-mail address.

just ask him!!!!

I'd be flattered!

Go for it, like someone said above, say you saw him on the directory

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olaola wrote:

the team must have drinks together at the bar afterwards? that would be the best place to go over and say "well played today" or something then get talking

:yes:

I know you say that you are too shy but I seriously think this is a better way to go. My guess is that even if you started talking to him on msn you are still going to be too shy to go over to him in person, I think you should just say hi or smile in passing and see how it goes from there. You dont have to have a really long conversation with him or anything just build on it each time you see him.

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bunglenutter wrote:

I'm getting closer, I just know it, maybe ten more attempts...

have you tried vinyl.vicky@iwantbunglenutter.com:lol:

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